think about it. and dont judge, its just a question.
think about it, 9th or 10th grade and you'd be walking around with a huge stomach and everyone would think ur a whore.
what would you do?
and dont say "oh i would never get pregnant" because this is a situation. yeah. it could happen.
2007-12-26 18:17:51 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Adolescent
IM NOT PREGNANT IM JUST ASKING A QUESTION ABOUT IT. READ . thnx.
2007-12-26 18:33:05 · update #1
why the hell is everyone agaist aborting.. i am 16 years old and if I were to get pregnant i would get an aborting no doubt.. i have dreams and goals and I dont want to mess that up with a kid.. it already happened to my sister...
2007-12-27 05:54:29 · answer #1 · answered by hi.am.ana. 1 · 2⤊ 1⤋
Well getting an abortion isn't always an easy answer. The thing I've noticed from persons who have gotten them is the problem later in life. No one looks to the future and anticipates what they will be thinking or feeling then. Do you always want to wonder what could've been? I mean at this point in time it sounds like the best solution to save face. But avoiding a human life to less humiliate yourself in front of your peers is only a temporary solution. Its like putting a band-aid or some tape on a gashing wound until you get to the hospital. It only fixes the problem for a little while. If you were to get an abortion now (or per-se) you would regret it later on in say your thirties, you would wonder if you kept the child who would be in their teens (your age now) and wonder what he or she would look like, how they would be, act, and things like that. Right now its just, how do I look at school, 2-3 years from now, nothing your doing will matter, except the education. See school wasn't designed to be a fashion show, or a meeting place for teenagers. It was designed to educate people. So therefore, think to the future, and how you believe you will think about this then.
2007-12-27 03:10:35 · answer #2 · answered by Living In Fast Forward 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I guess I'm one of the few that believes in abortion... I'm 19 and a virgin. If I got pregnant *now* I would get an abortion, let alone when I was 16 and younger. I'm not ready for a child, financially, emotionally, or physically. I know I would be ruining my life and because I'm not ready to raise a child, I'd probably be ruining the child's life, too. Adoption's always an option, but pregnancy's not all kitties and rainbows, either. And neither is adoption. I'm just not ready for any of that, so on the off chance I did get pregnant, I would not hesitate to abort.
2007-12-27 13:42:33 · answer #3 · answered by goddess_gaia 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
No I would keep it I found out a while back ago that I was pregnant and then just these past few days i found out that i had a miscarriage, so no i would keep that child me and I'm boyfriend are devastated about our baby and i dint no what to do now I'm heartbroken there I was thinking that I was going to be a mommy and now I'm not, so yea like i said I would keep the baby and by the way I'm only 15 so yea I dint care what people would say all of my friends supported me when I told them that I was pregnant and they didn't judge me for it!
2007-12-27 02:28:49 · answer #4 · answered by ♫Megan♫ 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I don't believe in abortions so i would carry the baby and depending on the situation i would keep it. If you ever choose and abortion think very hard, you are killing what could be a wonderful child all because you made a stupid mistake and don't want to show it. You would have to live with the fact that you killed a baby.
2007-12-27 08:29:49 · answer #5 · answered by Cassie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I've always thought about this and no, i wouldn't get an abortion bc it's not the baby's fault their mother had/would have them at such an early age. I wouldn't care what anybody said bc it's none of their business if Im pregnant or not. The only reason I would ever get an abortion is if i knew that the baby was going to be retarded or very unhealthy bc then they wouldn't understand lyf and would be dragging me down with them.
2007-12-27 08:26:38 · answer #6 · answered by Anna 1 · 1⤊ 2⤋
if i were in ur situation il jus continue it..abortion is against the Law of God,,,besides if ur really not yet ready to be pregnant u and ur partner should have used contraceptives so it wont produce a LIFE in ur tummy.u should have think of the consequences b4 u did dat,ryt?so u must face all of it now and dont blame d soon-to-be baby cos of ur negligence.
2007-12-27 02:29:11 · answer #7 · answered by chloee20sg 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
i was14 when i found out i was pregnant so no i would never change that i am now 20 years old and would not give that up for anything i love him with my whole world i was half way threw year 8 if you want to abuse me Private message me i don't care what anyone says i love him with all my heart
2007-12-27 02:47:43 · answer #8 · answered by bad_kitty_000 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
first i will talk to someone grown because a lot of abortions are not safe and see what they think i should do. But i also think if you laid it bed with someone you really was not thinking of what everyone going to say if they do call you a whore tell them it could happen to anyone!!!!
2007-12-27 02:32:36 · answer #9 · answered by justme 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
yea i've thought of that alot
but i think no matter how easy it would be to just get an abortion id rather keep the baby because id rather b a mother instead of a murderer
2007-12-27 06:13:25 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 1⤋