And if so, is it normal for them to orgasm? I'm sixteen, and I always thought that it was normal, but I've heard many people say that they hadn't done anything like that until they were almost seventeen, or they weren't able to have an orgasm. I've been able to have an orgasm since I first started (I was only twelve). Is it normal for teenage girls to masturbate? I know that with guys it is, but now that I know that many girls don't I feel weird, and sorta ashamed.
2007-12-26 17:54:21 · 41 answers · asked by Anonymous in Health ➔ Women's Health
Honey, almost everyone masterbates, it's one of those things that you just do...
There are only Two types of people...Those that masterbate....and those that LIE!!!
People who claim they do not the loudest are trying to justify their own guilt of doing so in hopes that attention on the subject wouldn't possibly focus on them since they claim they don't do it...
Feeling guilty after a sexual release is also normal, along with immediatly losing any interest in the act...
Relax....Enjoy your body, its Gods gift to you and if anyone tells you it's wrong just place them on the "Pay No Mind List" and crank one more off...
LOL...Good Luck....
P.S. I started at 11 and although the frequency has diminished since then...I still enjoy it
2007-12-26 18:03:20 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 34⤊ 3⤋
Teenage Girls Masturbating
2016-10-05 12:34:25 · answer #2 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes, it's normal. statistics of age or social groups isn't the best standard to determine the coarse of masturbating. it's personal to everyone. some people experience it even before becoming a teenager and some people experience it really late, like in their early 30's. no need to feel ashamed. it's better if it's not like everybody else. that's why it's unique and it should be special because it has personal meaning to you; to your life.
2007-12-26 18:11:23 · answer #3 · answered by viXXXen 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
It's incredibly normal. And it's not something to be ashamed of at all. There are grown women who have been married for years who can't orgasm and they'd trade places with you in a heartbeat. And some of those girls who don't masturbate get themselves knocked up or get an std because they didn't just take matters in their own hands.
2007-12-26 19:30:32 · answer #4 · answered by Serpentine Fire 5 · 1⤊ 2⤋
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2014-09-15 03:35:46 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I mean I was 15-16 so what it's totally normal and I feel in fact healthy for you you're going to want to get to know yourself and your body there's nothing to be ashamed about
2015-08-15 16:54:01 · answer #6 · answered by Monica Lane 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sweetheart you have nothing to be ashamed about. Everyone's body is different and some women are never able to have an orgasm. Count yourself lucky for that one.
Masturbation is a part of life. I think the majority of teenage girls masturbate. What is normal for you and your body may not be normal for someone else.
Please don't ever make decisions that will affect you, your body, or your life based on what others are doing. Do what is right for you. Has your mom talked to you about this type of thing and/or sex?? Do you feel comfortable talking to her??
I'm not preaching to you but if you haven't had sex please wait until you are married. I promise you, you will be soooo thankful you waited.
You should be proud of your body and sexuality always.. Everyone is beautiful and special in their own way...
2007-12-26 18:07:59 · answer #7 · answered by frenchielove4ever 3 · 8⤊ 3⤋
Don't be ashamed! I feel weird--I didn't start masturbating until a few months ago and still haven't had an orgasm, and I'm 24! Think of how many more orgasms you'll have in your life after starting early. I'm afraid I may never have an orgasm. And there's nothing wrong with masturbation--it's a way to get sexual pleasure without any risk whatsoever. I don't know why so many people have a problem with it.
2007-12-26 17:58:37 · answer #8 · answered by Colleen 3 · 8⤊ 3⤋
I'm a guy but I'm a little older than you so maybe I can help. The girl I'm seeing told me she started masturbating when she was 7 or 8, so don't feel bad. And there's nothing wrong with getting in touch with your body, believe me. And the fact that you're able to have orgasms and that you enjoy them is a big plus. If you know what feels good to you, it'll make it that much better for whatever guy (or girl) you want to be with sexually. If you can communicate to your partner what you enjoy, the experience is ten times better, trust me. There are any number or girls out there who have never masturbated and have no clue what to tell their sex partner when it comes to bringing them to orgasm. I know, because I had a girlfriend like that once and it was difficult to know if I was doing the right things to her or not. Don't be ashamed or worried; you're actually doing yourself a favor. The girls who aren't doing it are missing out.
2007-12-26 18:01:08 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 17⤊ 2⤋
As a graduate student in psychology, I can tell you that it is perfectfully normal for a teenage girl to masturbate. Different people start at different ages, and sometimes people will tell they don't do it when, in actuality, they do, they're just afraid to admit they do. If you find yourself doing it excessively, if it starts to interfere with your well being, then you might consider talking to a good counselor. And by all means wait to have sex until you find the perfect person, and then always practice safely. It is much safer for you to please yourself and to know that you are clean and healthy than to be having sex with all sorts of different people. Hope this helps you. I would strongly suggest for you to find a competent, understanding adult to speak with.
2007-12-26 18:00:57 · answer #10 · answered by itsmejack 1 · 2⤊ 4⤋
The ones who don't either feel weird, sort of ashamed, or share a room. For all I know, girls like you are in the minority, but you are the normal ones. There's grown women, hey, even married women who don't know how to stimulate themselves to orgasm. There's nothing weird about masturbating, babies do it as soon as they can reach. Be happy :) Masturbating is normal and healthy! Besides, you'll never be able to teach your sex partner to do it for you if you don't know how to do it yourself.
2007-12-26 17:59:36 · answer #11 · answered by Rosie_0801 6 · 2⤊ 3⤋