she's fourteen and he's eighteen. she's taken four pregnancy tests and they all came out posotive. and yah. this was a mistake. a big one. she realises this. but what are her options if she is pregnant? she's against abortion.
2007-12-26 16:52:17 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Pregnancy
the state is arkansas.
i'm not sure if that's legal here or not.
but her mom wants her out of the house.
really?
those are her only two options?
wow.
2007-12-26 16:57:24 · update #1
What about the dad taking/rasing the baby? If she doesn't want an abortion, adoption doesn't feel like ananswer to her, and her mom wants to kick her out, then what about dad taking the baby and raising it at his house. The responsibility of taking care of the child doesn't fall solely on her. Would him and his parents care for his child? if not then adoption is the way to go (see if a family member is willing to adopted the child)
2007-12-26 17:14:49 · answer #1 · answered by redbrat34 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She can offer the baby out for adoption. Also, there are places she can go like a woman's retreat centers where she can secretly stay until she gives birth to the baby and offers the baby up for adoption. This might be an option to consider if she is concerned about publicly announcing her pregnancy or her boyfriend getting in trouble. Her parents may also support it.
2007-12-27 00:55:43 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, depending on where she lives her boyfriend can face criminal charges for statutory rape. Since she is against abortion her options are keep the baby or give it up for adoption. Either way she needs to talk to her mom soon so she can make a doctor's appointment.
2007-12-27 00:55:53 · answer #3 · answered by Mikey's Mommy 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
1. She keeps it.
2. She aborts it.
3. She gives it up for adoption.
If her parents want to, they can pursue statutory rape charges. Her boyfriend will be required to register as a sex offender for the rest of his life.
My sister got pregnant at 16. At first, they were horrified and embarrassed. He is now five, and this is the best thing that ever happened to everyone involved. ALWAYS look for the silver lining...
2007-12-27 01:32:22 · answer #4 · answered by Too Silly 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
legaly as soon as she has a child she is amancipated so her mom can have her out of the house and if she is againest abortion she can alwys put it up for adoption i had a lil girl at sixteen and she turned out alright and so did i. i was scared at first but i raised my lil one all on my own. i thought about adoption to and now that i look back i am glad i didnt i wouldnt trade her for the world. being so young she cant get a job but if she decided to keep it she can get help from him and theres other ways to get help
2007-12-27 01:04:20 · answer #5 · answered by Alesha M 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Have the baby and keep it or have the baby and let a couple adopt it.
Her mom wants her out of the house? Then she needs to call CPS and have them to come to her home. They can find a place for her to stay for pregnant teens.
2007-12-27 00:56:17 · answer #6 · answered by Sparkles 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Planned Parenthood can help. She can check out their website to find a location near her where she can go talk to someone there and get some advice. They can tell her what her options are.
2007-12-27 00:56:30 · answer #7 · answered by maisha 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
found a web site for teen pregnancy. It has teens talking about their own pregnancies, and the things they had to go through telling their parents and decisions they make. It gives you info for any decisions you have to make and also tells you about people and places that can help. It looks really good
http://teenbreaks.com/
2007-12-27 00:57:24 · answer #8 · answered by loquitaamericana 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Adoption, if she feels she is too young. Either abstinence or better protection in future, after she has the baby. many people who cant have babies would love this one.
2007-12-27 00:56:35 · answer #9 · answered by YoWhoIsThisMan 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well if she wants she can keep it or she can give it up for adoption. Tell her to stay strong and hopefully her mother will stand up and be one and stop being so selfless and help her. good luck to her. god bless
2007-12-27 01:13:07 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋