should i kill myself.
i am 47 years old. and my childern all are olde then 18 and no one of them live with me. I think they hate me when they lived with me i couldnt buy them anything for there birthdays. and some nights i coudldnt buy them food to eat at night. some christmas they didnt get a single percents. what the point of me living i only work in popeys making$ 6.50 an hour, and live in a small room with a lot of people
2007-12-26 16:43:32 · 16 answers · asked by gloria.ortea 1 in Social Science ➔ Psychology
i could never get any help from the govement cause am not a us cizten
2007-12-26 16:50:01 · update #1
There are millions of people like you and some are even worst than you.Should they all commit suicide?You brought up your kids with love and through hard work is good enough and some day they shall realize it.It's as simple as that and that is,if we can't give life then we have no right to take a life.Try to do some thing new,like a small work of your own,a business sort of thing and with your experience,you shall be able to do better.Never give up on HOPE.Good luck.
2007-12-26 16:58:18 · answer #1 · answered by brkshandilya 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
no its the most selfish thing you could do. If you are worried about your children then think about how bad you'd mess them up if you did. Money isn't everything and I know that that is easy to say but at the core of life its true. It doesn't determine the true worth of a person. Kids at that age generally just want to hear that you are sorry for the struggles you put them through and are pretty forgiving. Whats going on with you? Stop feeling sorry for yourself. You have got to really notice the smallest little positive thing in your life and slowly build on that. You are in control of the direction your life takes. You can either choose a downward spiral or a trampoline of happiness. (pick the latter its tough too but worth it!) Good luck!
2007-12-27 01:02:24 · answer #2 · answered by helpfulhannah 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You should not take your own life.
I want you to keep living because it is not necessary for you to feel this way. You may feel completely logical and justified for feeling suicidal, but no one's circumstances demand such a resolution.
You are most likely suffering from a physical condition known as clinical depression. I should know; I have been in the same situation of feeling that suicide was the proper choice.
Clinical depression is a treatable condition as is any physical ailment. You should able to go to a free or low-cost clinic and share your symptoms with a doctor. He or she can help you.
I do not need to make you understand why you should go on living in face of your circumstances. Your circumstances are not the cause of your suicidal feelings. They have only triggered your clinical depression.
Please see a doctor very soon. Skip work if you have to, saying that you have to see a doctor. They have to let you do that.
Please do this.
2007-12-27 01:19:19 · answer #3 · answered by Ultraviolet Oasis 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If anyone told you you should kill yourself I would have to say that they were sick. The fact that you are asking questions shows that you do not want to. People who are really suicidal do not want to connect with anyone, and you are still connecting. Your life does sound crappy, but I am sure that there are things to live for somewhere. When I feel bad I think of suicide and know that I cannot do it until my kids are grown, but then I start thinking about seeing my grandchildren. I am sure that the relationship between you and your kids will improve - as they get older they will better understand that you did what you could, and that love is the most important thing to give a child.
2007-12-27 00:51:42 · answer #4 · answered by Fanny Blood 5 · 3⤊ 0⤋
That's nothing compared to my life. I have a drunk as a father, and druggie half sister, my cousin abandoned my family for 4 years, my cousin committed sucide and my aunt was murdered. You have no possible idea how sad I was when they were dead. Words can't express my grief or sorrow, and I was only 12. Can you honestly say that you want your own family to go through that as well. Please reconsider things WILL get better, I've learned through experience.
(P.S. I also considered sucide last year when I was at a school I truly hated and failed 2 of my classes. But I didn't I had faith and now I'm at a school I love passing all of my classes. It's truly not the answer.All it does is make your entire family saddened at your untimely death.)
2007-12-27 00:55:59 · answer #5 · answered by ... 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yes.Definitely you have to kill yourselves if you like to give more suffering to your children...! Did you hate your father when he did not give you what you did not give to your children? In this fast world normally the people have no time to spend enough with their parents. That is true. You have to accept it. They are also suffering by some other reasons at this moment. That means everyone has their own sad story to tell and kill themselves. Money is not a matter. Your children are adults now. don't worry. They will look after themselves. You just love them. Not by gifts. through understanding of them.
2007-12-27 01:02:42 · answer #6 · answered by puladora 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
My dear girl u have did a wonderful job and u now can work 2 jobs I do im a social intake worker n psychologist have been 10 yrs .raised 4 boys all grown and wld have missed it for the world.....e mail me ill talk with u....n why cant u get citzenship? maybe able to help i have resources but not allowed to solicit .........christmas is not about gifts its about our saviour the gift of ETERNAL LIFE .read this part over n over
2007-12-27 01:06:07 · answer #7 · answered by Psychologist In The House 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Instead of killing yourself kill your children in your mind. honestly i would have written them off a long time ago. At least your tryin and if you showed them that you loved them the whole time. Then what do presents matter? just more **** that they wont care about in a few months. I would cut your losses before they hurt you more and keep on workin and tryin to make a better life for YOURSELF they're grown kids they can figure it out and maybe they will wise up later on down the road.
2007-12-27 00:52:32 · answer #8 · answered by Superad! 2 · 1⤊ 2⤋
Don't do it. We have been given this amazing opportunity to live, to be conscious, to "be aware". We only get one shot at it, and when it's gone, THAT'S IT.
Sometimes it's the "little moments" that make everything worthwhile. Look for those moments, and grab onto every one...
2007-12-27 01:05:12 · answer #9 · answered by Ste Bone 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You know....God loves you.....no matter where you are in your life. God made you...he created you for a purpose....So...Don't give up on that.....YOU ARE IMPORTANT to God.....I am sure you have many gifts and talents....just ask God to help you.....really mean it in your heart when you ask...Ask God to reveal himself to you in a very special way...and he will...DON'T GIVE UP on yourself...you are only 47.......you have a lifetime ahead of you to make a difference every day in other peoples lives......Ask God to show you a way...HE WILL!!! Hope this helps my friend.....you can make it!!
2007-12-27 01:06:35 · answer #10 · answered by Rebecca 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋