69, also known by its French name soixante-neuf (sixty-nine), is a sexual activity. In this position, two people orient themselves such that each person's mouth is near the other's genitals, simultaneously performing oral sex.[1] This position can be performed in opposite-sex or same-sex pairings
The 69er got its name because the numbers are head-to-toe — as you are when you're doing it! Put simply, it's a sexual position that allows each of you to give and receive oral sex simultaneously. The usual position is you on top of him, with your bottom pointed toward his face, genitals lowered so he can lick them. Meanwhile, your mouth is positioned above his penis.
Because you're giving and receiving pleasure at the same time, some claim a 69er is the ultimate erotic sensation. Others find them to be ultimately frustrating: It's all too easy to get lazy on your end! If your partner's working his magic and you're about to climax, it's common to forget about his pleasure and try to get away with a few lackluster licks. That's why many people try 69ers in their youth and then decide they're too much work. Big mistake, ladies: They're a great way to add naughtiness and variety to a stale sex life, and with a few simple adjustments, they're easy to master.
This can be done lying down, one on top of the other or side by side. Alternatively, one partner can stand while holding the other upside down. In this position, the genitals are approached from the opposite direction, allegedly creating a sensation different from that of ordinary oral sex.
In an act of 69 that includes a female partner, her clitoris is licked, possibly through the clitoral hood, which provides a buffer if the clitoris is too sensitive for direct stimulation.
If a male partner is present, his frenulum rubs against the roof of the performing partner's mouth, while the foreskin and the front of the glans may be stimulated by their tongue.
In an act of 69 between a male and a female partner, the female may choose to be on top so that she can control how deep the penis enters her (deep throating) to avoid gagging.
One variation on 69 includes digital penetration of either partner's anus or vagina.
The position carries the benefit of allowing partners to experience sexual stimulation simultaneously, but this can also distract those who try to focus solely on pleasuring themselves. The position can also be awkward for partners who are not similar in height.[2]
2007-12-26 16:02:35
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answered by bubblemonster85 3
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Both partners give each other oral. Imagine the number 69 if it were rotated and laying on its back. Usually the guy lays on his back and the girl is on her knees over his face with her face at his penis. Oral takes place at the same time.
2007-12-26 16:07:45
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answered by BB 2
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I can see that you have some detailed answers here, so I am just going to give you a bit of advice..... it is okay for something new to try, but I do not recommend it. My reason is that you really want to enjoy your guy performing oral sex on you. If also want to give proper pleasure to your man, this can be difficult. If you have ever had a guy go down on you, you know how in the moment you can get and how deep into yourself you can go. Now, imagine that feeling while trying to please him. You have to either give up concentrating on yourself, or give up on him. My suggestion is having him take care of you, then having you go down on him. I like to do it in that order because after pleasing you he will have less to clean up than after you pleasing him. Don't want to ruin the moment!
2007-12-26 16:27:29
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answered by just waiting 1
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well this is what my wife and her lover does daily is 69 position, it is where her head is between lover legs , to lick her hot box, same thing her lover does the same thing lick her hot box
2007-12-29 08:32:46
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answered by JAMIE D 1
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If you know the meaning then you don't need much explanation. You and your partner need to play around and find out for yourselves what works for you boths.
2007-12-26 16:44:10
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answered by ? 7
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also know as neunundsechzig well just lay on top of your partner upside down and start to give each other pleasure
2007-12-26 17:05:26
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answered by Anonymous
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but dont do it if either of you have had a hot curry,or beans,or mushy peas,as stinking silent or noisy farts spoil the whole moment.
2007-12-26 16:42:34
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answered by fozz 4
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um.....make sure there aint no cheese under his foreskin......and then follow the instructions as mentioned by some of the other contributors
2007-12-26 21:06:20
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answered by mark_2005_london 3
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you take them to the ice cream shop. oh no, sorry, i'm thinking of a 99. diane.
2007-12-26 21:19:25
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answered by diquarry 5
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2 different way maybe even 3.
first; you ie on the bed your mate lies on bed with you but he puts his legs towards your head and he puts his head to your sex with you on the bottom.
2nd way.
he lies on bed and you lie on top of him but your head is at his sex and your sex is at his head so you are on top and he is on thebottom.
3rd way; you both lie on your side but your legs are at his head and your head are at his feet his sex his head is at your sex.
hope that works for you.
good luck.
laurey.
a.laureyandwilliam@yahoo.co.uk
2007-12-26 19:11:49
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answered by Anonymous
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