we are in a one-bedroom apartment and need more space but we can only afford to move to a neighborhood with less available convenient shopping and now we found a house we can afford but it is 7/10 mile form the things and people we will be walking to regularly. It will never be this easy to buy again (nothing to sell first) but I just cant get comfortable with the location. I dont want to cheat him but I need to feel comfortable. I have always had a problem making big decisions. i need a strategy to come to some conclusion about buying this house or not. If I wait the market will just go more in our favor bu tthere are no gurantees. How can I sort this out?
2007-12-26 15:55:38 · 1 answers · asked by AvatarX 2 in Home & Garden ➔ Other - Home & Garden
your brain isn't functioning in it's usual way, so this is not the time for YOU to be making life decisions..... either go along with the hubby and let him get you set up in the new place, or stand your ground and stay where you are ....... that is a big enuff decision in itself..... first, I'd not ask a lady that's eight months along to even THINK about packing and moving anything......that's bogus..... your back's sore enuff ain't it?.... arent' you tired already?..... if he insists on the move, due to a good time or price or whatever, it's up to him to move you..... don't risk yours and the baby's health doing the moving...... if you can 'put your finger' on what it is about the new place that bothers you, talk it over with the man you love and get him to understand what it is.... perhaps it's the 'feel' of the neighborhood?... rough part oftown?.... standoffish folks?.....
whatever, you take it a little easy until that young'un gets here....you're supposed to be focused on that and only that right now.... (other than lovin' yer feller, that is....).... *smile*........
2007-12-27 04:41:23 · answer #1 · answered by meanolmaw 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋