I'm thinking of going out for some smokes and never coming back. I got a girlfriend I can stay with.
2007-12-26 15:38:00 · 26 answers · asked by Lonewolf 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
well how about being honest with her? so you already cheating on her so let her go so she can find a man that will treat her right.
2007-12-26 15:41:15 · answer #1 · answered by tweettreat 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You are not telling the truth.
If you hated your wife, you wouldn't be asking this question. You would have left her a long time ago.
The fact that you stay with her shows that in some tiny, hidden part of your heart, you still care about her.
Lose the girlfriend, take a vacation with your wife (leave the kids with somebody else) and try to work on your issues.
Maybe both of you should join the gym. Amping up your health and looks can work wonders for a dying relationship.
Good luck.
2007-12-26 20:16:42 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Married and has a girlfriend so go stay with the girlfriend and divorce your wife unless you don't have a job and like living off a woman then you're just a lazy jerk and shouldn't bother people your wife would love to see you leave. I'd hope she has some selfworth left. You make us men look real bad, So do you have a job and who pays most of the bills in your home?
2007-12-26 15:51:09 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
If you hate your wife, tell her so and both of you get on with your lives. That's so not right to have a girlfriend and let your wife think everything is fine. Be a man and tell her. She may be hurt, but in the long run she will be much better off. (I hope your girlfriend sees how you treat your wife--it may be her in the near future!)
2007-12-26 15:54:14 · answer #4 · answered by Kim 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sit down with your wife and tell her in a calm manner how you feel and simply tell her you'd like a divorce. Don't just leave and never come back. You can't run away from your problems, they always find you.
2007-12-26 15:54:12 · answer #5 · answered by T 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
she is your wife you owe it to her to tell her that you want out. Only a coward would do something like that. You're already cheating on her so man-up be honest and let her go start a life that she deserves. As for you you are a low like that will get what is coming to you in the end.
2007-12-26 15:52:13 · answer #6 · answered by love my life 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Then go, but your girlfriend better think twice when you tell her your going out for a smoke.
2007-12-26 15:52:44 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
This will accomplish nothing. Why don't you face her like a man, rell her it is over, and you think it is time for a divorce. You may be surprised to find she feels the same way.
2007-12-26 15:54:27 · answer #8 · answered by K K 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
u dont have to leave like that. have a conversation with her and be honest with her. u never know maybe she feels the same way. and as well as u maybe she also has a bf lik eu have a gf. try to be an adult and a man to talk.
2007-12-26 15:44:41 · answer #9 · answered by curious 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hey in this situation be cool because we know what you want. Be easy and let her know tenderly. Why not , you already made your mind up why start up a bunch of drama.
2007-12-26 15:45:59 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Please go,that is not fair to her! Did she do something to you ,that made you do this or is it just exciting for you to do things behind her back? You among all the rest of the cheaters make me sick,have a nice lonely life!!!
2007-12-26 16:13:25 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋