I have been Married 2 times and I am married now but 4weeks ago my ex wife found me after10 years of being apart.
we have a 11 year old together .
now here is the problem we are both remarried we love & care about our spouses but we are still in love with each other
we started having afair and I split up with my wife are marriage was end it any way but do you think we should folow our hearts.
what do yall think the resion me and my ex divorsed was we were to young and did not know what we had
2007-12-26 15:33:12 · 9 answers · asked by Bobby T 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
i was 16 she was 18
2007-12-26 15:37:36 · update #1
i was 16 she was 18
2007-12-26 15:37:44 · update #2
i was 16 she was 18
2007-12-26 15:37:49 · update #3
i was 16 she was 18
2007-12-26 15:37:52 · update #4
i was 16 she was 18
2007-12-26 15:37:54 · update #5
i was 16 she was 18
2007-12-26 15:37:59 · update #6
u see there is no fixing it with my wife we have been split up for 4 mounths
and there is nothing there and yes we are sure it is love we never felt the same way about any one else
2007-12-26 15:56:16 · update #7
Has she told her husband anything? If u guys really love eachother, then divorce your current spouses. We only have 1 life to live, so just do what you gotta do to be happy. You did wrong by having an affair, u should have respected ur wife, but let her know now before it gets worse.
2007-12-26 17:23:52 · answer #1 · answered by 1love 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Bobby, I feel for you, but why did u and your ex
wife break up in the first place?
I don't think it was because you were young. I think
you both broke up because you both wanted to
see what was out there. When you both realized
that there was nothing out there but headache,
you found your way back to each other.
But look at the pain you caused. You both married
people that you were not in love with. You care
about your spouse, but you didn't love her.
That's messed up. I'm not judging you...I just feel
that I would never want for someone to do that to
me.
If the one you are with is the woman you want to
be with, then be with her...and stay with her.
Don't hurt anyone else again...like you hurt your ex
spouse.
Take care.
2007-12-26 23:56:36 · answer #2 · answered by joseph t 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If you love and care about your spouse, you should stay with her. You took a decision 10 years ago, so you need to live with it. Stop seeing your ex-wife, tell your wife what happen and fix this mess.
2007-12-26 23:40:30 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
how many children do you have with this wife?
IF you decided to go back to your wife...are you ready to expose your 11 year old to this again?
What happens if/when you split up again...does the child just suffer all over again?
I think there is more here than just "Should I go for it!" its not just you and your EX involved....I would say
No!
Work it out with you present wife
2007-12-26 23:39:36 · answer #4 · answered by StopPanda 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
yes your bad . i feel sorry for the women you cheated on. and you lie you dont both love an care about your spouses if you did would not have been cheating on the. i dont think its your heart your following but you have to deal with all the people you hurt along the way. will it work dont know but i dont see how cause if your both willing to cheat on people you calim to love and care about . then will again on each other.
2007-12-26 23:39:17 · answer #5 · answered by tweettreat 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
wow, well i know that ur current wife will be devestated, but u have to follow ur heart. let her be free to find the man who will treat her the way she deserves. set her free.
2007-12-26 23:38:38 · answer #6 · answered by A. N. M 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Please do something quick and quit hurting these innocent people who happen to cross your paths...I guess so...at least that way you won't have those lovers in between getting angry and sending death threats at you.
2007-12-26 23:39:59 · answer #7 · answered by Muslimah S 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
ya, right, that's as good an excuse as any i guess.
2007-12-26 23:38:45 · answer #8 · answered by KRIS 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
whatever.
2007-12-26 23:39:59 · answer #9 · answered by letterstoheather 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋