Ok this is lenthley.
My Aunt has offered to help us buy a house and rent to owne with us.
Well we found a house and my Aunt put a bib on it.
And then she sent us a contract to look over and sighn an my wife miss red parts of the contract and is now mad as hell with my Aunt and has also goten my son just as mad over one part the part about his dogs.
My wife is tretining to devorse me over this stupid disagreement .
Tonight my Aunt sead that she was going to back out of this contract with the owners.
And not to help us find a house agen.
I don't want to hurt my Aunt, or loose my wife.
What am I to do.
Please help this is killing me.
2007-12-26 15:26:33 · 11 answers · asked by jeffkuehn15057 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
If ur wife and family are more important then your gonna have to hurt your aunt over the desicions you are gonna make im sure your aunt will get over her anger sooner or later. i would much rather keep my family than loose them just to make my aunt or any relative happy.
2007-12-26 17:10:41 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
sorry to say but your wife and your aunt are being stupied and childish. first your wife was wrong to not read it carefully. so that is her fault never sign anything from family or friends or a low lawyer with out taking a few days to read it over and over make sure you understand it. as for your aunt she is wrong to say what you can or cant have in the house as long as you are making the payments now if she is making them then she has the right to say that but she knew you had dogs so she should not have said anything about them. your best bet is to stay where your at. if she divorces you over this you would be better off that is just stupied of her. and your aunt needs to let you live your life with out making it her business. good luck
2007-12-26 23:35:15 · answer #2 · answered by tweettreat 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Your aunt should not be involved with you and your wife's housing. If she offered for you to live with her to save money, that is one thing.
She does not sound like she can afford to help you financially and has no good reason to be involved. You need to find cheaper housing and if you cannot afford a place that allows dogs maybe you will have to get rid of the dogs or accept living on the street with them.
Some areas are cheaper to live than others. You may need to find a place that suits your income. Also if your income is low, speak with someone from family services, HUD housing and/or your local department of housing- you may qualify for help.
2007-12-27 01:07:28 · answer #3 · answered by Traveler 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I really don't see why she is mad at you...if anything she should have been happy you had someone willing to do such a thing...but I digress...Your aunt gave her the contract to look over...So its not your fault she was given the opportunity to read and consider all the rules...she should be mad at herself not you...Your wife is tripping...and the audacity to threaten divorce over this...when she was given an opportunity to say "He%% no I'm not signing that contract, tell her never mind the offer!!"
2007-12-26 23:36:09 · answer #4 · answered by Muslimah S 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
this is why its never good to do buisness with family. Let your aunt back out of the contract and go back to renting or go to a bank and get a loan.
2007-12-26 23:32:10 · answer #5 · answered by blueeyd_princess 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
you may have been able to READ the contract better if your spelling wasnt so horrendous. My advice would be to take some reading classes and give it another try. As for now, if it was in the contract then you and your wife are going to have to deal with it, or you can back out and be sued for breach of contract.
2007-12-26 23:34:09 · answer #6 · answered by Mastermind 3 · 0⤊ 2⤋
Avoid making a parternship with family. It's a business arrangement that may go bad and then hard feelings could arise. Maybe try looking at other options if it is possible. Then maybe everyone will be happy.
2007-12-26 23:32:46 · answer #7 · answered by cherryblossom 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
I don't understand maybe... you can't have the dogs? is that what you mean?
Well, your wife has to decide where her priorities lie... and if her dogs are more important, then keep the dogs... i don't see why she is angry ?? Decisions have to be made every day, and we have to consider our lifestyle....
If your wife is threatening divorce over this, she's a goof ball.
2007-12-26 23:32:16 · answer #8 · answered by letterstoheather 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
thats got to be an awful position try getting together with all parties involved and resolve this
2007-12-27 00:23:17 · answer #9 · answered by chrystal f 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
If I were in your shoos..lol..I would go back to school and learn how to spell..lol.
2007-12-27 01:06:26 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋