2007-12-26 15:15:57 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Entertainment & Music ➔ Polls & Surveys
Opposites can attract all they want, but if your core values and beliefs don't match ... the relationship won't last. This is one thing even most relationship experts agree on. You can be opposites in lots of ways ... but you must have similar beliefs on religion (either the same as yours or very accepting of it) ... spending money (finances) and how you want to raise your children. Those core beliefs make up the deepest part of who we are and if they don't mesh ... eventually things will go wrong. So in that way I'd say - we need to look for someone who is like us in regards to those specific things.
Other than that ... being opposite of one another in less important ways can be fun and entertaining and just the thing that keeps the "spark" alive. I don't set out to specifically look for a certain "type" of person, but rather someone can make my heart skip a beat with their sense of humor. If we have pretty similar values and he can keep me laughing ... even at myself ... then that would be in my book ... someone worth keeping!
Peace to you ...
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2007-12-26 16:44:55 · answer #1 · answered by ? 7 · 3⤊ 0⤋
For me, it depends....Sometimes I like a guy who I can relate to and communicate more with but, some opposites do attract. It really depends what type of person it is (the opposite one) and what kinda of person you are into.
2007-12-26 15:25:24 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
opposites attract <3
2007-12-26 15:20:37 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
I believe opposites attract but there are some exceptions. It's nice to have someone who is interested in the same issues that you are.... right?
bye!
2007-12-26 15:23:49 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
My husband and I are opposites but I find that we are connected so much that we have a lot of the same thoughts.
2007-12-26 15:22:03 · answer #5 · answered by Julie C 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think hair up is the way to go. there's this myth where i come from. the old people say before that when a pregnant woman looks pretty and has that "glow" you're talking about, your child is going to be a girl. and if she doesn't have that "glow", she"s going to have a boy. i don't know it's just some piece of useless information haha.
2016-04-11 02:20:13 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think opposites attract.
I'm a really headstrong stubborn kinda guy so a guy more even tempered and calm would suit me better
2007-12-26 15:19:19 · answer #7 · answered by rachel x3 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My fiance and I are almost polar opposites in every aspect, from our musical taste to our cultural background (I am Italian, she is Thai) but every one of our differences is something that in a way is a similarity. We share in our differences and it completes us.
2007-12-26 15:20:25 · answer #8 · answered by Spark of Insanity 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I like a mix!
The guy I like has some of the same qualities as me but some are different!
2007-12-26 15:19:45 · answer #9 · answered by Drama Queen 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i like my guy to like the same things i do for the most part
somethings can be different
2007-12-26 15:22:30 · answer #10 · answered by punky89 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋