2007-12-26 15:15:27 · 10 answers · asked by ? 7 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Acceptance. You shouldn't have to change who you are or what you believe in to make them happy. Especially if it's issues about "you've always done this or that since I've known you" and brought up after years of being together.
Other people can try to motivate you to improve yourself but unless you want to do it- it won't happen.
2007-12-26 16:13:37 · answer #1 · answered by T 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Acceptance of who you are has to come from your partner and motivation to improve yourself needs to come from you. That said, you also need your partner's support when you want to improve yourself. Unfortunately there are people who prefer to have their partners stagnate. I guess it's perceived to be less of a threat.
2007-12-26 23:36:33 · answer #2 · answered by Jules 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Acceptance. Improving the self must come from within.
2007-12-26 23:20:18 · answer #3 · answered by some female 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Acceptance of who I am, That will give me motivation to improve myself as long as I get careful, gentle, and above all, patient, guidance from him.
2007-12-26 23:23:52 · answer #4 · answered by Uncertain Soul 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
both. first an acceptance of what i am and hten the motivation to improve myself in areas that require improvement.
2007-12-27 00:01:26 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
my husband can't give me motivation.. that is up to the individual... someone else can't possibly motivate me to do anything.
i'll take all the acceptance i can get, because im' not going to change for anyone.. i like me the way i am.
2007-12-26 23:22:02 · answer #6 · answered by letterstoheather 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
acceptance.......... if you have to improve yourself, then you need to get another partner
2007-12-26 23:21:48 · answer #7 · answered by Bonduesa 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
ya acceptance is very relative term,partner is there for you whenever you need any correction in your day to day life
2007-12-26 23:45:09 · answer #8 · answered by Sumit S 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Both
2007-12-27 00:09:07 · answer #9 · answered by trapeze 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
a little of both but much more acceptance.
2007-12-26 23:21:48 · answer #10 · answered by <> <3 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋