When it comes to masturbation?
In my opinion yes.
Think about it, a woman has to be 'in the mood', be in an appropriate enviorment (in bed with spouse, etc), be all emotional, and just go through all this other crap before she can truly and correct masturbate.
A guy meanwhile doesn't have to go through all that. All a guy has to do is excuse himself from a social gathering or something, go around back behind the building, unzip and have away with himself and be finished and relieved in 5 minutes before returning to the party as if nothing happened.
A woman feels the urge? she has to wait until she and hubby get home and get 'in the mood' before it can happen.
A guy feels the urge? go to the bathroom, unzip and do your business, wash your hands, return to the party and have fun.
Sometimes a guy dosen't even have to be sexually aroused if he feels like jacking off. He just does it cause he can. A woman however has to be all emotional,etc
You see where I'm getting at? Agree?
2007-12-26 15:13:08 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Social Science ➔ Gender Studies
um lets see...my alarm went off @ 5 am to get up for work this morning....by 5:07 I was enjoying one seriously fantastic "O" ...I was alone... I can masturbate at a moments notice...trust me, no emotions...all about the "O" ;)
I will agree though, that men just don't seem to have the hang ups that many women do concerning masturbation. (generally speaking...men seem more at ease, and comfortable).
2007-12-26 15:40:30 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 8⤊ 0⤋
No, I don't see what you are getting at because you are talking about two different things and also basing it on sterotypes (women having low sex drives, needing ages to get into the mood). You are talking about masturbation but your argument isn't about mastrubation, it's about sex as you say 'In the mood with spouse' until she can correctly masturbate.
Masturbation is a private thing (and women do masturbate as much as men, but we don't like to pubically discuss it). You were thinking of being fingered or masturbating with teh partner which is entirely different.
You say 'a women feels teh urge? she has to wait until she and hubby get home and get in the mood' but this is contradictory, if she feels the urge she's already 'in the mood' and why does she need hubby? Masturbation is a private one person thing, not with another person.
As you aren't a woman and I doubt you've spoken about this to many women, then you should really do your homework. I can tell you as a woman, I do it whenever I feel like it, suaully about 3 times a day.
Biologically women's clitorises (which is what they masturbate) is the exact structure, although smaller than the male penis but it has 100's of more nerve endings. In studies it has been proved that the female orgasm is more pleasurable and more intese.
We can get it done in 1 minute for a quicky if we want, or go on for about an hour if we want a really long session. Vibrators are also brilliant and there isn't a male equivelant.
Also, thinking of practibilaty I think we have it easier because if we have the urge we can do the deed and walk away without an embarassing 'hardon' visible and no mess!
But...as you obviously have no idea about teh female sex drive, anatomy etc then I can see how it would take a veeeeeeeeeeery long time for your girlfriend to get 'in the mood' with you.....
2007-12-26 23:22:40 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 2⤋
I don't know why so many people are agreeing with you. If a woman grows up in an atmosphere where masturbation is frowned upon she never develops a good 'technique' as it were. The only point I will concede, is the technical simplicity of unzipping and having discreet access. Even then, it's not as if you could conceal your business at a dinner table.
An ex-girlfriend of mine managed to reach her O in a train carriage full of people (we were not on a double set of seats though!). I don't believe a woman has to be 'emotional', that sounds ridiculous.
2007-12-26 21:47:16 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
Explain to me exactly why you beleive a woman can't be sitting at the same "dinner table" and be masterbating and get away with it. Can a man do it that easily and discreetly? What exactly is it you think a woman needs to meet this desire??
What in the world does she need a husband for to masterbate??? I think we can "handle" that mood without the man. lol We are also quite creative. Are you suggesting ONLY married woman masterbate???? Men really are from Mars. Err at least this guy is!!! lol Rethink this logic or re-exam the female anatomy. I think we could get away with that particular action in public "easier" than a man could. Especially with a skirt on.
Woman certainly don't need to pull any thing out or push it back down because it stood up, nor do they need such obvious motion................?????
As far as returning to a table....we wouldn't suddenly look as if we out of the blue perspired..........
2007-12-26 16:28:08 · answer #4 · answered by savahna5 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
It sounds like you don't know how female masturbation works.
I don't have to be at home with my man or even in a sexual mood. Furthermore, if my man is with me, I don't have to do it; he can do it for me! I can do it at home, in a washroom, anywhere that has privacy. And, I can do it whenever I want. I don't have to feel all "emotional" about it. If the urge strikes me, I can just do it.
If I'm having trouble sleeping, wake up from an erotic dream, need to kill some time before class or work, or I'm really stressed and just need a break, I can get myself off whenever I want. AND, I can control how long it takes me to get off. If I'm in a hurry, I can take as little as 1 minute. If I want to enjoy myself, I can take up to an hour.
Where did you get all these crazy ideas about female masturbation?
2007-12-26 18:25:51 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 1⤋
Not really, no.
Admittedly, the bathroom arrangement does not sound all that appealing but the perfect romantic atmosphere is hardly necessary. Nor are the emotions. Also, you don't have to "wait" for anyone else to get there. That's sort of the point.
And the "five minute" thing is only an advantage as long as there's no one else involved. After that, it becomes a liability,
2007-12-26 16:04:03 · answer #6 · answered by K 5 · 2⤊ 1⤋
"""Think about it, a woman has to be 'in the mood', be in an appropriate enviorment (in bed with spouse, etc), be all emotional, and just go through all this other crap before she can truly and correct masturbate""" NO.
Some women can acheive orgasm just by doing a few muscle contractions- she doesn't even have to go to the restroom or wash her hands.
2007-12-26 15:30:37 · answer #7 · answered by professorc 7 · 8⤊ 1⤋
there is greater equality recently interior the time era "uncomplicated". people who choose dissimilar sexual companions .....applies to the two sexes and people who choose to be slightly greater picky applies to the two sexes. It has constantly been many times seen that men could have intercourse and walk away much less complicated than a woman........yet i understand men i could evaluate "anyones" purely as i understand women persons must be seen "anyones". So can not make a usual fact.
2016-10-20 00:44:58 · answer #8 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well to a degree. But I think most (open) men will agree, that masturbation is a must for men, while for women, it's more of a 'fun' past-time, not that men don't have fun with it, but it almost seems like a daily chore.
2007-12-26 15:23:59 · answer #9 · answered by S P 6 · 2⤊ 1⤋
Apparently you have never been a woman. Mood and all that jazz fest is only required when you're having sex with a man. For every other occasion, see Delicious' example above.
2007-12-26 17:30:40 · answer #10 · answered by Lioness 6 · 5⤊ 1⤋