I'm a guy too and we are so close and we get along famously but he has a bf and I don't know what if anything he has for me. The bf and him broke up last month and are currently back together but they arent getting along and another break up is coming soon. I don;t want to be the rebiund dude but I'm in love with my pal. What do I do? How do I know if he is into me? Don;t tell me to move on my feelings have just been growing and I sort of think he can start to sense them. Why can't my life be easy just once? Thanks for your input.
2007-12-26 15:03:34 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
Im a guy. Sorry for any confusion.
2007-12-26 15:20:16 · update #1
Just be honest and tell him how you feel about him. If he wants to keep the relationship between you and himself just strictly friendship, then be happy with it and respect his wishes. If not, and he wants to explore a more personal relationship with you beyond just simple friendship, then you know what to do. Just be respectful of his feelings and don't play any mind games with each other. Life is too short and precious, spend your time wisely.... Good luck man :)
2007-12-26 15:14:34 · answer #1 · answered by edwin_nepunan 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like you and him need to have a talk. You may not want to, but that is the only way that you can convey your feelings. Do you plan on waiting for the next breakup? It never works you know. You could always go back to the other side of the fence and give a girl a try. You never know.
2007-12-26 23:11:23 · answer #2 · answered by guitarrman45 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
let your feelings out bro, let em know you'll never know until you find out and take that risk.... go for it, if he likes you he'll show interest in you and if not then its tough but hey at least you know you tried, fyi nothing GOOD in life is ever Easy, everything that makes you smile and gives you that warm feeling inside is felt after all this tough times acts thoughts feelings, had a tough life all of my life until now, things do get better bro! u ever wanna talk im always with my guy and you can get two points of view no matter what k.
friend in me
2007-12-26 23:11:03 · answer #3 · answered by ? 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well don't feel too bad...my ex broke up with me for a guy... so i guess i turned him gay...that made me feel special lol...just try and put him out of your mind...hes most likely not going to change his orientation.. unless he is not truly gay.
2007-12-26 23:07:47 · answer #4 · answered by Macy 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just get it off your chest as soon as possible, that way you can get on with your life!
2007-12-26 23:07:13 · answer #5 · answered by Zombie King 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be honest and truthfull and let ift off your chest before its too late.
once its too late theres not going back (:
2007-12-26 23:17:38 · answer #6 · answered by doryy |$$| 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Are you a girl or guy...because you said you don't wanna be the rebound 'dude'...I'm confused. Restate question please...
2007-12-26 23:12:08 · answer #7 · answered by aShlEy aNd JoNaThAn 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋