Somebody told me to start using tampons and stuff so the hymen will already be broke and stuff so it will not hurt as bad.
Is this true? Help.
Thx,
2007-12-26 14:46:10 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Health ➔ Women's Health
don't do it till your married, you'll regret it. if he loves you he'll wait
2007-12-26 14:51:47 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
That is true. You can also stretch yourself on your own. Start by inserting one finger and move it from side to side. When you're able to do this with no pain, move to 2 fingers and so on. Masturbation is also good....helps to stretch things out a little down there. The trick to this is to do it months/years in advance so if you're planning on losing it this weekend, this won't help. Also, when you do have sex, make sure you're well lubricated. Being dry will make it more painful as will not being relaxed. You will be nervous, but try to relax as much as possible. When you're nervous, you're more likely to tense up and will be even tighter down there. But, here's a clue about that from my own experience from my first time.....if you're truly, truly ready to have sex, you won't be nervous! Seriously, I was nervous for a long time because I was afraid of the pain, but once I was in love, all of that anxiety was gone and I wasn't afraid or nervous about my first time. I knew then that I was truly ready.
2007-12-26 14:57:07 · answer #2 · answered by First Lady 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
if you lose your virginity make sure it's with someone you're comfortable with. if you stress about it you tense, which is what I did, and that just added to the pain. use tampons and make sure he fingers you, a lot. that's what i did and it still hurt like **** the first, second, and third time.
and if you're like 14 or 15, completely discard what I just said.
2007-12-26 14:52:31 · answer #3 · answered by sportzchick143 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
im not you or him but all i can say to you is wait because you may not be ready for whats to come behind havig sex physical and emotinally. and even if you think you are still dont do it. think about how you can NEVER get your virginity back afterwards, and if your guy relly loves you or not.
but if hey if you want to do it ok, but it hurts, but it doesnt hurt as bad as people might've told you before
2007-12-26 16:11:04 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yeah, it's true. but it sounds like your young if you havent ever used tampons so i would wait..well actually i personally would wait til marriage but thats just me...best of luck
2007-12-26 14:52:16 · answer #5 · answered by Jen 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
dont try to prepare yourself.. wait until you are ready then you'll deal with things as they come
2007-12-26 15:08:26 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
no. tampons don't make you lose your virginity.
God doesn't want you to have sex before marriage. just remember that.
2007-12-26 15:08:30 · answer #7 · answered by Kimbo ;) 5 · 1⤊ 2⤋