My husband has an unusual sexual fantasy. He likes to image that I am, what he calls, a giantess. Think the 50 foot woman, only much bigger. Like 50 miles or 500 miles tall.
He likes to imagine that I'm dressed in nice clothes, but with high heeled sandals, and polished toes. I've don't wear heels very often, and haven't paited my toes since I was a kid.
He likes to imagine scenarios where I'm attacking the military or destorying cities. He also like to imagine that I'm teasing/taunting to step on him.
The fantasy is harmless, but I'm not that mean or dominating, so I'm really having a hard time coming up with what I should say, to act this fantasy out, and it makes me reluctant to do so.
If this were a simpler fantasy of say being a slut or some dominatrix, I think it would be easier. But a woman 50 miles tall, dressed up and in heels? It's a bit specific, and I'm just at a loss, on what to say.
2007-12-26 14:45:35 · 11 answers · asked by KarlaKayC 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
I admit to a certain lack of imagination. My husband has a, pardon the pun, huge imagination. You should hear the great stories he tells our kids!
2007-12-26 14:53:57 · update #1
"Hey Little Man. Come here. Touch me"
Order him to do this and that. Keep with the "small man" theme.
Also-ask him some more questions about the fantasy. Does he want to be denigrated? Made fun of? From your previous question probably so-so ask him how he could ever please a woman with such small equiptment, ect. Act very cold and unaffected. Tell him to do things to you and act like he isn't doing them right or that it's just "okay".
I do this to my sub all the time and it drives him bonkers-acting like what he's doing isn't really all that good, like he has a lot to learn...
Play it by ear-you can tell when your man is into it, right? So see what it is that makes his hot. But remember-its *your* control he's looking for. So as long as you're confident he will relax into it and be in the moment. If you falter or act like this is silly he won't take it seriously either.
Confidence is sexy. Its not the outfit. Its the attitude that turns him on.
2007-12-26 14:53:02 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Have you no imagination? Close your eyes and imagine that you are that 50 foot tall woman, ask him to put some GI Joe figurines or something on the ground to help assist in your giantness, go out and pamper yourself with a pedicure (this is a great excuse for one), buy some cute heels. Think about all the times that you wished you could step on people who were rude or mean to you or yours. I think you will find it a lot easier than you expect.
2007-12-26 14:50:56 · answer #2 · answered by Cookie 3 · 3⤊ 0⤋
that is the awesomest fantasy ever hahaha.
props to your husband!
embrace it!! just become that 50whatever foot tall woman. you destroy cities, break hearts, and heres a fine pawn to play with!! youre a great giantess, missy. you dont take orders from a little guy like him! squash him! or at least taunt him with your toe! its horribly embarrassing i know, but just say whatever comes to mind and have him tell you how youre doing. have him act along with you, too, so you play off each other.
good luck hun. and have fun! its just a big game!! :))
2007-12-26 15:09:07 · answer #3 · answered by peterpiper 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Lol I think letterstoheather has the right idea. He may get a turn on by this giant fantasy but there's no reason you can't have a bit of a laugh from it too.
2007-12-26 14:52:16 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 0⤋
Lol, I love the other persons answer. It is great.
You should just have fun with it.
And maybe use it as an excuse to go get a pedicure = ]
2007-12-26 14:51:46 · answer #5 · answered by brittany_lauren09 2 · 3⤊ 0⤋
cummon man close ur eyes n imagine u r a giant n do wht u always wanted to do if u were huge!!! Bring out tht imagination muscle man!!
2007-12-26 14:58:31 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Uuuuuuhhhh sorry this sounds a bit out of the normal kinky league. I couldn't begin to tell you anything to say that wouldn't result in you laughing and ruining the moment!
2007-12-26 14:51:44 · answer #7 · answered by youngphilly 2 · 1⤊ 2⤋
FE FI FO FUM i'M A GIANT - HERE TO MAKE YOU C**
FE FI FO FUM WANNA GET SUM?
hahahahaha
2007-12-26 14:53:08 · answer #8 · answered by plastic 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
swounds like great fun. play along
2007-12-26 15:16:11 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
fee-fi-fo-fum i'm gonna get some of that yum yum yum. try growling and scratching him, almost like your raping him. you are bigger than him, so take advantage of him;)
2007-12-26 14:50:09 · answer #10 · answered by A. N. M 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋