For almost 2 years now me and my boyfriend have been talking about getting married. We are planning to get married in 4 years or less, but my boyfriend has not popped the question yet. Everyone can see that we are ment for eachother, ive loved him since I was 14 im now 19 (He is 23).
I don't want to rush him, but we are making plans, trying to figure out where we are going to live where (Because we are 3 hours away) We have our kids names, we love eachother so much its so special..
How do I make him pop that question, Hints, tips?
I know he want to be with me, his friends tell me, I want to finally after 6 years, become "his" have that name.
I know he want to, but how do I get him to do it.
2007-12-26 14:33:42 · 11 answers · asked by x0hEEE 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
NOT PUSH HIM, BUT LET HIM SEE I WANT TO
2007-12-26 14:39:38 · update #1
Also, we want to get married after im done with college and he is settled... no rush....
2007-12-26 14:41:07 · update #2
DIVORCE IS NOT AN ISSUE I HAVE FAITH, MARRIAGES ARE NOT PERFECT, I KNOW> PLEASE DO NOT PUT DIVORCE ANSWERS
2007-12-26 14:43:28 · update #3
being just 19 you are really still very young and maybe that's what he thinks,too,that's why he hasn't popped the question yet.maybe he thinks of your welfare and really wants you to finish your studies first and everything,and maybe he's not very selfish for him to take away your youth by already getting married.
enjoy your life as it is,be thankful that you have a boyfriend whom you feel secure with,who loves you very much,whom you love very much.you don't have to rush yourself,you're still very young!
the fact that you are able to talk about the future,the name of your kids,etc,is an assurance that he really sees the future with you and for the meantime leave it at that.
or maybe,he's just really waiting for the right moment to pop it out,maybe not this yr,maybe next yr,or the next couple of years.just be patient.he may be planning on something grand,or romantic.
just relax,cool it,enjoy your being single and being carefree,for marriage is something not to take lightly.and once you get married it'll be a different chapter of your life.
so enjoy your chapter in life now,you still have so many things to do before you want to settle down.after all,you're just 19.
2007-12-26 17:33:11 · answer #1 · answered by αςhα ♥ 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he is ready to ask you to marry him, I'm sure if he truly loves you, he will do it in his own time. Don't worry so much about it. It will happen when the time is right. Just enjoy your relationship in the moment and explore all your thoughts and feelings in the mean time. Good luck to you, and I'm I'm sure he will asking you when he is ready.
2007-12-26 14:39:45 · answer #2 · answered by courtneyscottusa 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Slow down Nellie! WTF?? I am a woman and alot older and the speed you are working scares the bejeezus out of me. DIvorce is >50% of all marriages! Most of that statistic hits higher with the younger couples.. Do yourself a favor.. get an eduacation.... plan on a career.. get married.. later.. beleive me you.. there is no rush.
2007-12-26 14:38:14 · answer #3 · answered by BeeBee 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds cliche' but don't push him. Maybe he is waiting until he is ready - with job, money, school etc. Enjoy the time together and ask him what he thinks. He may surprise you with the answer you are looking for!
2007-12-26 16:03:01 · answer #4 · answered by Dandy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you should just be forward about it. Perhaps you can mention to him that since you all have been doing all this planning, you would like to get engaged. Just tell him, "I would like to get engaged" and see what he says. On the other hand, you could always propose to him, if that is your style!
2007-12-26 15:20:16 · answer #5 · answered by iloveeeyore 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you try to pressure him to asking, then he won't. Just be patient, M'ija, he'll ask when he's ready. He already wants to be with you. Just enjoy the time together now.
2007-12-26 14:37:07 · answer #6 · answered by Talkstress 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If he really wants to marry you..why do you have to get him "to pop the question"? I would think that if he is ready to marry you...then he would ask you to be his wife....If you have talked about marriage...kids and your kids names....I would highly imagine that he knows you want to get married....
2007-12-26 14:38:10 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
if you are destined to be together i'm sure he will ask in his own time... you are fortunate to have the good relationship and to be making future plans now.
look forward to the day he asks.... no use trying to force him into it.
take care
2007-12-26 15:11:51 · answer #8 · answered by letterstoheather 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like you have already decided how he feels. Why don't you ask him?
2007-12-26 14:38:28 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
If you have to "get him to do it".....he's not ready.
Marriage is serious business....don't do it until you're both 100% ready.
2007-12-26 14:38:04 · answer #10 · answered by daljack -a girl 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋