everyone at school thinks im soo ugly and soo fat and so weird... it makes me so sad and i feel so bad about myself that like i need to become aneroxic but i only weigh 150..and im 15 but how can i change that?how do i make ppl stop sayin those things to me and picking on me. i feel like nobody will ever like me for who i am. sometimes i feel like crying about what they are saying.. i dont know what to do.please help!
2007-12-26 14:28:41 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Aww sweetie it's okay. You should try and think about the positive things in life, what you have accomplised and learn to appreciate yourself and who you are and what you stand for. People shouldn't be judging you on the outside but hey, we live in a cruel world don't we? Just don't listen to what others say because you are better than them; most of them must be jealous of you and are bitter people that have worse lives than you do. Don't feel bad because of others misfortunes, they probably envy you. 150 is not heavy and you should come to realize that you are a beautiful person and no one is going to change that, no matter how much they ridicule you. Good luck!
2007-12-26 14:33:26 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
Maybe you are spending too much time feeling sorry for yourself. You have no way of knowing what the whole school thinks.
Sit down and write out your good points and bad points. Be honest, everyone has both. Think about how you can accentuate the good.
Look for the good in others too. Be positive and friendly, but do not try to force anyone to like you. You may find that there are a lot of nice (not perfect) people around.
2007-12-26 22:44:13 · answer #2 · answered by hamrrfan 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Without a picture I can't answer the question, though I'm pretty sure you are not ugly. Could be, but probably not.
For the most part you cannot control what others say. You can only control your reaction to them. Easy to say. Damn hard to do.
I can tell you that at 16, and weighing 240 pounds myself, I found out that I could throw some of these loud mouth guys around like they weighed nothing. I learned that driving my elbow with all of my weight behind it could actually knock a guy out.
So after awhile no one made fun of me anymore. True I was an ****** and somewhat feared, but better to be loathed and feared than mocked.
2007-12-26 22:51:46 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You're just gonna have to develope a hard shell and ignore them. The more they see you getting your feelings hurt, the more they're gonna do it. You can always come up with snappy things to fire back at them. "You're so thin, a dog could walk by and fart and knock you over". "They're gonna love you in Revenge of the Nerds part 6". Be creative. I had to be. I weighed 150 when I was 12 and here it is 28 years later and I'm still a big ol' boy. But no one makes fun of me. Any reference to my size and I just tell them I'm a great cook.
Chin up....no pity parties.
2007-12-26 22:40:06 · answer #4 · answered by unclewill67 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My suggestion would be to try and be really nice to people, and they'll feel way to guilty to say anything bad about you. If they are still mean to you, then i suggest changing schools next year, and in the summer break give yourself a makeover, go on a healthy diet if you think you need to, buy some new makeup and clothes and then go to your new school confident and happy and you'll immediently start making friends:):):)
2007-12-26 22:38:56 · answer #5 · answered by Arielle T 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
aw you need a big warm hug!
i'm in high school too
and none of the kids at my school are mean like that
it's ok
be yourself
don't let others force you to be someone else
they're just jerks
there are so many good and bad people in this world
you haven't met nice people yet
be strong
don't listen to them
ignore them
if you ignore them
they will soon ignore you
good luck with everything
don't let others bring you down!
:)
2007-12-26 22:36:07 · answer #6 · answered by Elaine 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First you need to stop worrying about what other people say about you and figure out how you feel... If you want to change something about yourself then you change it but don't allow others to make you feel ashamed about yourself because in the end your all you got... You sound like your almost depending on others judgment of you to render the verdict of how you should feel about yourself..You need to do you and let wish they could.. Just live your life how YOU want it
2007-12-26 22:35:41 · answer #7 · answered by g dog 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I'd join a club and find some people that like me for who i am and just learn how to tone out stupid people. People can be idiots, you just need to surround yourself with people that aren't idiots.
As for the weight, Its really not an issue, 150 pounds at fifteen is not overweight at all.
But if your weight is really bugging you, join indoor/outdoor track, you can lose a lot of weight from running if you stick with it.
2007-12-26 22:43:38 · answer #8 · answered by Nate Lynch 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
they're assholes. you knowww, i sometimes have imperfections that get to me also, but you have to remember...there ARE decent people out there...you just have to find them =) not all people are assholes like them. just keep your confidence up high cause if you dont, youll just be satisfying them. truth is, they just pick on you to make themselves feel better. show them that what they do doesnt get to you. just remind yourself that you're better than them already...cause if they care about you, how you look, and what you do..well, honey, theire world revolves around YOU =)
2007-12-26 22:50:56 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you feel that way, then do something about it
you are probably prettier than most of those people
take care of yourself- not for them...
there will always be mean people, whether you are thin or thick... it's your choice to feel bad about yourself or to feel sorry for them for being so shallow
2007-12-26 22:34:21 · answer #10 · answered by justmemimi 6 · 1⤊ 1⤋