I love him so I don't want to hurt his feelings.
2007-12-26 14:26:43 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
Why don't you use it on him?
2007-12-26 14:29:12 · answer #1 · answered by kellynjackie@sbcglobal.net 1 · 2⤊ 3⤋
Don't do anything you aren't comfortable with. Tell him you love him, but firmly state that the dildo isn't an option. It's your body, I am glad you are respecting that. There are ways to refuse to do things we aren't OK with and avoid hurting anothers feelings at the same time. Good luck! PS pay no attention to the jerks who make childish remarks. This is a serious question and it deserves a serious answer. If you can't do that, don't respond!
2007-12-26 22:32:45 · answer #2 · answered by sky64 5 · 4⤊ 0⤋
Why on earth would your partner want to use a dildo on you? a dildo is for personal satisfaction for him, not for you, unless he is trying to inflict pain on you? Think about your feelings this is not a normal thing for a partner to ask, tell him you will be glad to help him use it on himself if he wishes to experience it, it was my understanding that anal intercourse (please, safe sex) is the ultimate experience between two gay male adults - if that is what they are into, rather than oral.
2007-12-26 22:36:30 · answer #3 · answered by Bob B 2 · 2⤊ 1⤋
Apparently you don't seem to keen to the idea, so you should just tell him that it doesn't do anything for you. If he argues, ask him if you can tie him up and cut him. He will probably give you a weird look and then reply with, "Well, that turns some people on, I guess not you, just like the vibe doesn't do anything for me."
2007-12-26 22:31:59 · answer #4 · answered by johnnyairport 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
If you want to, do it. Otherwise, don't. If he loves you, he will respect your decision. No one who loves you should ever make you feel pressured to do something you don't want to do.
2007-12-26 22:30:51 · answer #5 · answered by First Lady 7 · 3⤊ 0⤋
and he would want to do this because? why dont u ask him why first....then have a open converstion with him..if u love each other then u should be able to talk about anything...if u can sleep with each other then u have to b able to talk to each other as well...talk it thru....and good luck....who knows...u may really like it......
2007-12-26 22:31:45 · answer #6 · answered by niki g 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
It's your body. You don't want to hurt his feelings...but don't compromise your own. If you don't want to ...tell him. It won't hurt his feelings. It may disappoint him...but don't expect/let him to be any less sensitive to how you feel, than you are to how he feels.
2007-12-26 22:30:20 · answer #7 · answered by Lisa E 6 · 7⤊ 0⤋
be u
do what is best 4 u
think deep & hard
maybe you should tell him no,
tell him ur not ready,
..or if u want to go ahead..
2007-12-26 22:51:07 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Take it like a champ.
2007-12-26 22:30:58 · answer #9 · answered by headcheese 5 · 5⤊ 1⤋
you should take turns using it on each other
2007-12-26 23:31:01 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
If you are not comfortable then tell him.
2007-12-26 22:31:13 · answer #11 · answered by sshazzam 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋