me and my boyfriend been together for 6 months and he doesnt want to have sex with me and rarly in the mood to do anything else and i dont know what to do im a very sexual person
2007-12-26 12:34:22 · 47 answers · asked by Anonymous in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
I'm afraid that passion lasts longer for some people than others.
Communication is very important, so I strongly recommend having a conversation with him about your relationship. Don't make it confrontational, and emphasize that you want to continue growing the relationship. But allow him plenty of time to speak. Be aware, though, that if this is your first serious conversation about the relationship, he may take awhile to open up.
Be prepared in case he says he also values the relationship but is no longer sexually stimulated by you as much as before. Some men simply have different kinds of libidos -- and if you're both relatively young, it is extremely common for a lot of young gay men to want to have sex with a lot of men, to experience what's out there. You know, sowing their wild oats. Gay or straight, I have long concluded that most men are simply not ready for monogamy until they're 30 at least.
Good luck.
2007-12-26 12:37:10 · answer #1 · answered by The Snappy Miss Pippi Von Trapp 7 · 0⤊ 2⤋
I have a friend and he loves giving oral sex and being the penetrator but he doesn't like being penetrated. I don't know if this is what you and your boyfriend is going through but I'll give you the same advice as I gave to him. Sex is a subject that should be approached from all angles including what you like and what you don't like. You two should be able to come to an agreement as to what works for the both of you. Sexual compatibilty is just as important as emotional compatibility. Hope everything works out for you!
2007-12-26 12:47:12 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well this is a tough one. there would be many guys who would love a boyfriend like you. Maby hes not that into the relationship. The age also matters, if your young he might be afraid of the consequences. Ever heard of Abstinence, he might want to wait till hes married. If you feel like hes not attracted to you that's a problem, just talk to him, and if he still doesn't want to, joke around and say you'll have to get it somewhere else.that ll make him a bit jealous. Good Luck!
2007-12-26 12:42:03 · answer #3 · answered by Teengal 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Well.*coughs* Do what i do to my girlfreind hit the person with a bat in the head
hand cuff their arms and legs force feed the body a dose or 2 of advil pm.(You didnt hear that) Oh yeah leave the body at the front door of their house(You didnt hear that either)
2007-12-26 12:41:12 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Unfortunately, he appears to be losing interest in you. I would talk with him about your observations and ask him to tell you what is going on. It may be better for him and you for him to tell you directly and honestly that he is losing interest in the relationship, and it is time for him to move on. He is probably afraid to just say this to you, because he cares about not hurting your feelings. But, better to be honest, because you will find out sooner or later, and maybe in a way that is more hurtful.
2007-12-26 12:50:17 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ya know, it sounds like something is going on with him... either he's not interested in the relationship any more or he has something on the side going on with him.... It could be that he's just not interested in sex any more, but unless he's 30 or older... I don't see this being the case...
Talk to him about it... or wear something sexy and see if you can draw him into some action... There may be something else totally different going on that he just feels dirty (work, family)...
2007-12-26 12:37:44 · answer #6 · answered by Rob D 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
If this has been the case from day one, why would you expect it to change???
If things have changed, what has changed? Did either of you do something to cause a change in the other?
If you think that we can tell you how to fix your relationship without knowing about your relationship *dingdingding* you're WRONG.
Repost with details and see what we can do.
2007-12-26 12:38:34 · answer #7 · answered by alyosha_snow_crash 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
omg
can you like ask questions
that are not gay sex labled
my little cousin
cant stop saying the word sex in front of everybody
all cause i let him use Y! a
2007-12-26 12:38:09 · answer #8 · answered by Me 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
See if he will go have a medical exam or ask him if he is happy with you.
Whatever you do, do not try to create any pressure with him, if it is all in his head, that could make it worse. Good luck.
2007-12-26 12:37:56 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
I suggest having a discussion with him and finding out his reasons. If he is your boyfriend, it is understandable you feel the way you do but all you can do is wait, so suggest it to him again.
2007-12-26 12:37:14 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋