do relationships really work out?

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Of course they do if both partners want it too. I'm here now to share my great experience with you all that have problems with your partner and tell you all how we survive with just a sincere and hinest communication. I want you all know there is NO doubt to survive your problems if your heart is in your OWN control. Here is my GOLDEN KEY letter that I wrote to my guy and shared all my feelings, good or bad and I just got GREAT and UNBLIEVABLE result out of it. I know many of you are worried and upset but remember COMMUNICATION IS A GOLDEN KEY but sometimes we don't know how, so here is what I did and we both agreed to do it once in a while, because we shoild know that our partners is not a mind reader and has to know how we feel ...so the letter is below..Wish you all the best and merry christmas friends

You are important to me.

I like how you always come up with great ideas.

You have an impressive personality.

I like the way you take care of yourself.

I like how you enjoy sex but your porn addiction is hurtful.

I love the way you hold me in your arms.
The way you kiss me,
The way you touch me,
The way that I feel sleeping beside you.

I love the calm look on your face when you are sleeping.

The way you breath beside me that I can feel your warmth on my skin and I can’t resist touching your great body.

The way you feel when I kiss all over you. It’s just beautiful.
Yet, It is very disappointing and offensive that you cannot give up any chance to have sex and date others when you have already made your intimacy with your girl. That makes me feel you are not a right guy to be with and I hate this feeling.
I hate to give up on you.
I like how we can communicate and open up our feelings, good or bad, but sincere without blaming or criticizing.

I respect your decisions.

I trust you to handle things unless you ask for help and I would do anything I could to have your back.

Sometimes I feel you aren't being totally honest with me, because I see that you act differently and then lie., because of this I’m afraid of trusting you.
You are very kindhearted.

It hurts to see you unhappy.

It‘s really hard when I can see it in the way you look at me and my heart feels different but at the same time I don't want to be put aside all the time and not treated any less than what my heart deserves.

I truly love you..

It inspired me to see how determined you are and how hard you try to keep us together.

You are my courage.

I like the way you respect my independency
I like how you express yourself with your great taste of music.

You are very patient yet, hasty at times.

I think you think about your past relationships a lot, when it’s not necessary to think or even talk about.

I’m sorry that sometimes I cannot express my bad feelings correctly in your own language and it makes you feel bad about yourself. You know that I really don’t mean it.

I like the way you listen, present the options and possible outcomes.

I believe in your maturity, yet sometimes you make immature excuses to justify your actions.

I love the way you never let me be upset with you too long.

I like the dignity and calmness you show when problems do arise.

I don’t like how You minimize the importance of my time and cancel ahead plans on me. I feel disrespected and unimportant.

It’s sad when I need you and you are not around.

You never give up on me, and that's what keeps me going

I respect the faith you have in us.
and,

I want us to be together too, Jon.
You are the only person who I always wanted to be with. I’m not sure what we are going though or how things would change and even get better than they are right now.

There are things that I mentioned how they really hurt my feelings and keep me away from you at the same time how I really feel about you…There have been hard times, bad times and good times, but with that comes lonely times. We have reached new and higher grounds with what we have shared in here. I would do it all over again with you if I know that I’m building my heart and my soul on something that is real…I have no regrets.

I hope somewhere down the road things will change but right now, I just need your help to clear up these a few obstacles that are on my way that has been keeping me away from your faith even though I know I have enough care to want us to try to make things better.

Answer 1

thanks, that helped me a lot..^_^

Answer 2

Thanks, that hurt alot, how rare it is to see such honest communication, ouchie..... and even rarer to find how little my chances for it are, lucky you, lucky you.....