ok here is my problem...
I have known this guy for bout 4 years.. we started dating and one thing led to another and if fizzled out, at the time i know he was married and his wife was living with him but they were "sepearated"
now 3 years gone by and out of the blue he emailed me... we have started seing each other again and he now lives alone in his house and his "wife" lives in londin with his 2 kids. he is down there all week visiting them and comes up on a weekend to work and see me .... now i dont hear from him when he is in london only ona weekend... he never answers questions wen i ask about pur "relationship! and to top it off last sunday morning i caught him puttin comdoms in his pocket to go to work with..
ne ideas bout what i should do ??? the thing is im falling in love with him and he knows it and does nothing more than encourage me to do so ....
2007-12-26 12:06:27 · 14 answers · asked by Erica M 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Ok i dont know how to say this with out being rude but "DUHHH!!" , If he's not still married which i believe that he ever was or is getting a divorce.. theres to many secrets to many odd things going on, he's totally playing with your head, and your heart. IF he only wanted to be with u, why would he need to load up his wallet with condoms before leaving u for a week????? duh, this dude is either still very married, or he has someone else during the week, either way, hes just using u for sex on the weekends and ur falling for it..
2007-12-26 12:19:18 · answer #1 · answered by brwneyedgrl 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It sounds like he's just a fwb. And if that's the case, it is not exclusive to him just cheating with you. He's sleeping with others as well. Don't fall in love past the pillow time, cuz he's not serious about you. And make sure you use the condoms that he's packing...
2007-12-26 20:24:03 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Better run while you still can and dont ever look back,this guys bad news all the way around. Tell him you want to see divorce papers before this goes any further or else move on to someone who is single and unattached. Good luck
2007-12-26 20:18:11 · answer #3 · answered by Arthur W 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
He is a player, it is clearly evident.
Since it was OK with you to date a married guy on a first "stage" of your relationship, why should it bother you that he pays you with your own coin? He cheated on his wife and now he's cheating on you... get your head out of clouds ( im falling in love with him ) and either accept the situation for what it is or ditch the fkr
2007-12-26 20:15:58 · answer #4 · answered by Darya J 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Here in the U.S. if a couple is separated they are STILL married. Since he is still with his wife he is STILL married. What do you THINK he wants the condoms for...just in case he caught something from you or someone else he chooses to phuck, so his wife doesn't catch it. In otherwords you're falling in love with a man who is treating YOU like a whore.
2007-12-26 20:20:31 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Look honey you need to ask him if he is willing to go through with his divorce and also ask him if he loves you than why is taking condoms to work because I am sure his job does not consist of condoms or sex. But honestly if he knows he got away with it before he will do it again if you know what I mean,
2007-12-26 20:17:44 · answer #6 · answered by baby girl 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
The last thing you want to do is get involve with this man. He's going to use you and abandoned you. It's better to cut him off from your life and don't waste another more time with him. Believe me, life is SHORT and it'll save you from another broken heart.
If you saw that condom, then it's a sign that he's a bloody player!!
2007-12-26 20:10:27 · answer #7 · answered by mitchchan 5 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Thats pretty funny....Makes you wonder how many other gals he is sleeping with huh? Oh, I almost forgot to answer your question. You said yourself that he is married and that she lives in London. I've always wanted to see England.
2007-12-26 20:23:16 · answer #8 · answered by Fergy 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Of course he's still married! And you are messing with a married man. Stay away from him or be USED. He's not going to leave her. He's a liar.
2007-12-26 20:27:04 · answer #9 · answered by Wiser1 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sounds like you are one of many and his wife too
clearly not a one woman man
2007-12-26 20:33:50 · answer #10 · answered by mike t 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋