im tired of getting hurt....thats all.....im tired of loving someone and them not loving me back...anywhere from a guy to my mentally ill mother...i cant do it anymore....advice??
2007-12-26 11:59:04 · 9 answers · asked by karen 5 in Social Science ➔ Psychology
I wish i could answer that for you and take away all your pain, everything you go through makes you stronger.
Maybe you should go see a councellor then can really help in what directions you should take in your life!!
Remeber what doesnt kill you makes you stronger!
2007-12-26 12:03:52 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It seems like you asked this question in an emotional state. Passion is a function of both love and hate. I suspect that you love people, but you hate the emotional distress of what that brings when love is not reciprocated, or when the people you love seem to do terrible things.
While it is possible to cut yourself off emotionally, I don't believe that's truly what would make you happy, and I think that deep down, you know this.
I believe you are a passionate, warm-hearted, and wonderful person to know. What will make things so much easier for you is to find your true center and live by what is really important to you regardless of others. I would highly reccommend "The 7 Habits of Highly Effective People" written by Stephen Covey. It's an absolutely incredible piece of literature. It will definitely help you find your principle center if you're willing to take the time to read it.
Mother Theresa said, "We cannot all do great things, but we can do little things with great love." Stick with it and don't give up on one of the things that makes you who you are.
2007-12-26 12:19:52 · answer #2 · answered by squallpl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe you're expecting to get hurt each time, so you have that feeling where ever you go. gives yourself time, and take little steps. don't feel that someone is always out to hurt you, or you might reject the guy/person who could potentially give you the love you want.
2007-12-26 12:14:02 · answer #3 · answered by kimberly n 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
apathy. look at a mirror and say "i do no longer provide a f*ck" for a pair minutes daily. additionally whilst somebody says something to you respond with those "this is cool" "good to understand" "so?" "despite" "and your element is?" and sound aloof. additionally smoking pot and eating plenty will make it easier to be apathetic. watch That 70's prepare and stick to Hyde he's good with apathy even i found a pair issues from him. Punk Rock As*hollow edit: do no longer pay attention to those wimps. emotion in simple terms makes issues suck. i'm plenty extra satisfied now that i do no longer care approximately stuff. I even have 3 emotions: satisfied, offended and Apathetic. and maximum situations its a mix of apathy and happiness through fact whilst i do no longer care i'm satisfied.
2016-11-25 02:34:07 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You get stronger through the years to the point of not letting too many things phase you. Keep your chin up and always tell yourself "you are somebody." Good Luck!
2007-12-26 12:02:58 · answer #5 · answered by peaches6 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Read co-dependent no more...
It helps... it does have some religious references to god a few times -- nothing major) but the book overall told me just what I need to do to focus on controlling my own reactions and not trying to control everyone else through my 'helping' .nurturing nature...
2007-12-26 12:03:54 · answer #6 · answered by astutewoman 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
take a step back let them come to you, that way they will be more appreciative , don't be so easy to give x
2007-12-26 12:37:45 · answer #7 · answered by ♥BEX♥ 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
stop loving guys.just ignore them.the key is,for them to love you first.if you love them,dont tell them,control yourself.its probably not love anyways.only affection.just live love and learn...
2007-12-26 12:05:44 · answer #8 · answered by мυgen_edaмaмe 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
uuummmm...the victim card doesn't work. set boundaries with these people.
2007-12-26 12:09:07 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋