a condom and spermicide gel if that condom breaks or something? and what are the chances of a condom breaking? i'm ready for sex, but i'm terrified of getting pregnant, not just at this age but even when i'm older, it just freaks me out haha. but would this be a safe bet?
2007-12-26 10:56:45 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Health ➔ Women's Health
Yes, that's pretty safe, but be aware that nothing is 100% except abstinence. There have been women to get pregnant while on the pill and the guy wore a condom. That's extremely rare, but it has happened. So, just keep that in mind. If you're truly ready to have sex, then you have to be ready to accept any consequences that come with it including an unwanted pregnancy. You should talk it over with your bf about what you'd do if you were to get pregnant.
2007-12-26 11:27:58 · answer #1 · answered by First Lady 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well...me and my bf use only condoms and we have been having sex for the past 2 yrs. Never has the condom broke or anything.
I dont think the condom would break if the guy REALLY knows how to use the condom properly. If ur bf is not really experienced, then u should consider using a gel or an oral contraceptive. But make sure u always use a condom since it is best in preventing STDs.
It would also beadvisable for ur bf (if he is not a virgin) to get tested to make sure that he is clean; for ur safety.
2007-12-26 19:09:26 · answer #2 · answered by Redii C 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Yes, that would be considered safe sex! When used correctly, latex condoms rarely break. I think there are directions that come with them. Oh, something they don't really tell you, don't use more than one! That actually increases the chances of comes breaking. There's always the pill too ...
2007-12-26 19:07:54 · answer #3 · answered by insideout023 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yeah even just a condom would be safe sex... but it would be best to move in steps, like just give him a handjob and move from there. there are lots of ways to be sexual without full blown sex, and it's often more enjoyable to take the scenic route. Besides,you can't get pregnant or any STDs from a handjob
2007-12-26 19:01:13 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Safe, yes. But if you don't want to get pregnant, then you shouldn't be having sex. The only way to make sure you don't get pregnant is to abstain from sex. Only people who are willing to deal with the consequences of sex should be having sex. So where the hell do you get the idea that you are ready?
2007-12-26 19:04:26 · answer #5 · answered by PontificalPape 6 · 1⤊ 2⤋
if u r that scared go double dutch which is a condom and the pill, the risk of a condom spliting r very low
2007-12-26 19:01:31 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you aren't ready to be pregnant, you aren't ready to have sex. I know you're horny, believe me, I am too, but there are other ways to keep Miss Puss happy. Tell your boyfriend to keep it in his pants a little longer. In the meantime, might I suggest yoga. Hope this helps.
2007-12-26 19:06:04 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
ANAL.
2007-12-26 19:12:07 · answer #8 · answered by Benny 2 · 0⤊ 2⤋