I hadnt contacted an ex friend for months and then sent him a Merry Xmas text even though my buddy said 'don't'
I got nothing back
It's not like I have been bothering him i hadnt text'd him for a very long time but I got a woosh of Xmas spirit and text him anyway
Feel like a fool I realize this is not that serious (ie one text after a month or two) but when I received nothing back I just sit here and wonder what a fool he thinks I am.
I am fixated on it
He was a friend I met several months ago I fell for him and we parted company because he didnt feel the same. I am a little obsessed with him. I am in counseling but even my therapist is getting a bit bored and exasperated with it!!! LOL
I am have written 'LOL' but i dont really feel like lol-ing.
2007-12-26 10:55:32 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Social Science ➔ Psychology
you are thinkin about this way too much. everyone does that random text messaging to people they havent talked to you in awhile. then after you text message them you wonder why you even decided to do that. its okay, we all do that. im sure he has probably forgot about it and its not big deal. whats the worst that he thought? it cant be that bad you were just being pleasant and sending him a nice text messaging about christmas. i say move on, if he doesnt want you or talk to you, its hard, but we must move on to greener pastures. there are other people out there who are derserving of our time and efforts. you will find some great people out there who will appreciate the idea you thought about them on christmas.
2007-12-26 11:13:30 · answer #1 · answered by ? 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you are OCD, maybe you need meds. Prozac helps. Counseling alone is clearly not enough for you. Or, you can destroy your phone. Seriously, your friend probably knows you are fixated, so why respond? Just STOP OBSESSING!!
2007-12-26 11:15:07 · answer #2 · answered by eldots53 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If he doesn't want to talk to you, then leave it at that.
There's really not a lot you can do to make them like you back, and it's not good to be obsessed with someone.
So, just cut off all contact.
It helps.
2007-12-26 11:04:05 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, call your phone carrier and cancel the text message service COMPLETELY
2007-12-26 11:03:10 · answer #4 · answered by Laureen 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dude, it's called self control.....
2007-12-26 11:04:34 · answer #5 · answered by Bradygirl 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋