I'm attracted to a girl. She is a lesbian but she dresses, acts, and talks like a guy. It would be better and easier to handle if she was a male. Am I gay or am I just attracted to the masculine side of her?
OMG, I can't believe I posted this question. I have told this to no one.
2007-12-26 10:39:39 · 12 answers · asked by leah 2 in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
Well, she is still a girl, even if she acts masculine. But being attracted to her doesn't necessarily make you gay. You could be gay, bi or straight, but you need more time to figure that out. Right now you're just kinda curious but it'll take time to figure out if you're more than just curious. Good luck.
2007-12-26 10:47:36 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hello,
Relax, you've got to talk to someone about this & at least we're anonnomous. There are girlie girl lesbians & there are masculine lesbians. Even if you are attracted to her manliness she is still a girl & that would make that a lesbian relationship....so think hard about if you want to get into this. I'm not judging you or anything, but the are people who would. We all have choices to make...I know girls who tried it.. that's one way to know for sure. There is always the risk that people will find out..or maybe you won't even care after a while...it's your choice...choose carefully!
Take care,
2007-12-26 19:09:48 · answer #2 · answered by ? 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, we can't really answer that for you. Maybe you ARE just attracted to the masculine side of her, but have troubles in relationships with boys? I'm totally pulling things out of the air here, I don't know you or her.
Anyway, it doesn't matter if you like a girl or a boy... either way it's okay, you're not a bad person... at least, not for that. =)
If you really want to talk to someone about this you are welcome to message me. I hope things turn out alright, and try not to panic.
2007-12-26 19:07:27 · answer #3 · answered by Sara H 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
OK, I can't believe I'm posting this ANSWER. About 5 years ago this happened to me; the girl was attractive, but pretty masculine. She and I got to be friends. I knew she thought about me in a sexual way; but I had never ever thought about being with a girl. Anyway, it ended up we did hook up and I knew right away that it was not my thing. Unfortunately, she realy cared about me and it wrecked our whole friendship. Will I ever sleep with a girl again? Maybe. But basically I only am attracted to guys. I don't even consider myself bi; just adventurous!
2007-12-26 18:47:06 · answer #4 · answered by rock n roll chick 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I say go for it as it seems that you are both attracted to her and her masculine side ;) If you don't like it, that is ok. If you need to talk about it, please contact me.
We all need someone to talk to even about stuff we don't tell our friends or families.
2007-12-26 18:45:42 · answer #5 · answered by danielledspence 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
love doesnt care about sex or gender ⥠i cent reallay say if ur bi or not, i think u have to find out for urself, cuase onlee ur heart can tell u the answer :-} dont feel rushed in labeling urself. how bout flirt with her, see if u like her. the worst thing that cud happen, is u find out more about urself
2007-12-26 18:50:16 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You might be experiencing some same sex attractions . a lot of people do .
2007-12-26 20:41:46 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
wel, u cood either be gay or bi. im bi. u can never tel from a few words over the internet tho!
2007-12-26 18:54:44 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You won't know until you try..
However I think this is a fairly common question...
2007-12-26 18:44:18 · answer #9 · answered by mattcolin87 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well first ask youself does this happen to a few girls you see or is it just her? if its just her it is probraly just a little thing.
2007-12-26 18:43:46 · answer #10 · answered by Jukebox 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋