weeks pregnant when this happened. I Blame myself everyday.
2007-12-26 09:25:03 · 25 answers · asked by Niece&Me! 1 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Pregnancy
I know it is easy for you to blame yourself, it is for any mother who loses a baby for whatever the reason. I can tell you though, that you can rest assured that this had nothing to do with you having sex. my hubby and I had sex when I was pregnant with both of my children, the entire time - the ONLY time you wouldn't be able to have sex while pregnant is really late in pregnancy if you have pre term labor or other complications and the doctor tells you specifically no intercourse. Otherwise there is absolutely no harm to the baby. I wish you the very best and am sorry for your loss.
2007-12-26 09:30:41 · answer #1 · answered by Mrs. Lucky 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Sweetie, stop blaming yourself. Likely, it was something geneticially wrong with the baby and a miscarriage was a result. Having sex did not cause you to loose the baby. You are not to blame for the loss. I am sorry that you are going through this rough time.. I do not know how you feel, seeing as I have never been pregnant before, but I can only begin to imagine how painful this must be for you. You will be blessed with a bundle of joy in due time.. Just give yourself time to heal and feel better. Do not beat yourself up or blame yourself for this..
*hugs*
2007-12-26 10:38:26 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I had a similer thing happen to me. It doens't make it any easier though. I am sorry about your loss.
Don't blame yourself. There is no explination as to why these things happen. I work in OB and all the docs say it's real common. Just take one day at a time and grieve in whatever way makes you feel better, and try again. It will happen again.
I miscarried in September 2007, and got pregnant again in October 2007. I have passed the time I miscarried before and saw my baby's heartbeat on ultrasound. I am not too worried this time. Hang in there. I still have sex and it is not supposed to cause any harm. So unless your OB/Midwife tells you to stop having sex don't worry about it.
Good luck and best wishes to you.
2007-12-26 09:36:34 · answer #3 · answered by Tanya Lynn 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
AAWww.. you poor thing! Although it's totally natural to blame yourself, i am sure that you are not to blame! If you talked to your doctor i bet he would find out that the timing of your loss was pure coincidence. There has got to be a better explanation to why you miss carried. Many, many mothers have sex during sex and that never happens. Allot of mother have no clue thy are even pregnant at 5 weeks, so they continue their life as usual, and that usually includes intercourse. I'm so sorry for you loss and hope you have a successful pregnancy in the future. Children really are a blessing, I have two and am expecting my 3rd in April 08. If you are meant to be a mother, that day will come for you!
2007-12-29 09:50:02 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You didn't asked the doctor right? It's not advisable for a 1-3 months pregnant to have sex especially if you have a problem with your ovary(let say your ovary is low).That is a critical period for us during our pregnancy that doctors would recommend bed rest.It means you're not allowed to do some heavy works or travel for a long time.I'm sorry to hear that you blamed of yourself about it;maybe the baby wasn't for you yet;though it's hurt ing forget it ;and make a new start .You have knowledge about it already so;you're ready for it.Good luck.
2007-12-26 10:00:43 · answer #5 · answered by donnabellekim 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm sorry to hear that you are blaming yourself the sex would have nothing to do with losing the baby chances are there was a problem you just didn't know about yet please don't blame yourself any longer and I wish you happiness in the future
2007-12-26 09:30:55 · answer #6 · answered by sophia c 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sex does not cause miscarriages. I had 3 early miscarriages before finally having my son and sex did not cause them to happen. An early miscarriage means that something was wrong with the cells in the baby and it would not have survived anyway. A miscarriage, unless you are heavily drinking or using drugs is not the fault of the mother.
2007-12-26 09:29:56 · answer #7 · answered by Ryan's mom 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
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2016-10-20 00:02:35 · answer #8 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Girl, you didn't lose the baby due to sex. The baby, no matter what stage is very well protected from things like sex....even at 5 weeks.
No matter what....don't blame yourself. Sometimes, it's just not meant to be...which is really hard to go through, but this is how it is. But, please, do not blame yourself.
2007-12-26 10:05:09 · answer #9 · answered by BlueBlue 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dont blame yourself.it could have been a number of things..sexual intercourse may just be the answer a doctor could come up with...if they cant figure out what happened the next best answer is its something we did..i say this cause i had my water brake at 27 weeks after having sex..i was blamed for it...come to find out i had a weak lining on my water bag for some reason and it just couldnt hold any longer...
2007-12-26 09:30:37 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋