Our country is near India and very congervastive. I had never a girl friend though I am 28 now. I am confused wither our country's women have sexual desire or not because they do not show sexual interest to anybody. I assume may be 10% of them have sexual desire, 80% are neutral and 10% are sex hater. For this reason I feel depressed if I mary a girl here, wither she properly allow me to do sex or not. Beside from many days I feel no sexual desire towards normal women. I only arrouse by thinking about porn actress. They are open minded. They can allow their husbands to do any sexual act. As the are broad minded, they don't blame anybody for having any flaws. They can accept peaople as the are. In present, I think that only porn actress can properly satisfy my sexual desire and if I do not get a porn actress as my wife,my life will be meaningless. As all porn actress live in usa, europe etc, I feel very depressed as it seems impossiblle for me to get a porn actress as my life partner.
2007-12-26 09:01:12 · 14 answers · asked by Bluelover 2 in Social Science ➔ Psychology
I think that as you grow older and mature, you'll grow out of these childish thoughts and will become a normal adult.
2007-12-26 09:05:43 · answer #1 · answered by Stuart 7 · 2⤊ 2⤋
I m also from somewhere near from India and also I belong to a conservative society. I would say that you do not know or never had that much chance to women in your society. u know that,there are many women from good class,well educated are sexually as spicy as porn star BUT behind the door! everything happens just the mass people do not know about it because people are judgmental and seemingly a girl can not loose virgin before marriage. Though your idea if marrying a porn star is noble and nice,my suggestion would be to you: look for real girl and have relationship then explore sex with her and then you will find no difference!
2007-12-26 23:58:53 · answer #2 · answered by Layla L 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Cheaters and the cheated. You are depressed due to lust only. Read the Bhagavad Gita as it is By Bhaktivedanta Prabhupda it Will help you understand thing on a higher level and to overcome this bondage called lust which is the all devouring sinful activity. You think you are depressed now, if you marry a porn actress you will then be way more depressed because other men will be exploiting you wife. What a dumb idea. Act your culture. Get off the bodily platform and lean your real culture. you will certainly be cheated if you don't learn transcendence and self realization. This body will only give yo bondage. Wake up sleeping soul you are sleeping in the lap of the witch called Maya. For info on self realization go to harekrishnatemple.com hope this helps you.
2007-12-26 17:11:26 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 4⤊ 3⤋
Well, if you're being serious, take a cold shower. Try pursuing a normal relationship with a girl. Pretty soon, she'll be the most beautiful girl in the world. Sex and all will come, and it'll seem better than any "porn star" sex. Your mind is confusing physically "feeling good" with attraction. Once you relate with a girl and develop commonalities, your mind will re-wire itself to associate attraction with commonalities and such.
If you weren't being serious, then you're pretty creative.
2007-12-26 17:08:51 · answer #4 · answered by dflocks80 4 · 3⤊ 1⤋
I apologize for being blunt, but i think your estimation of your country's women ( and their sexual desire) is inaccurate),
your views about porn actresses are inaccurate and fantasy based, and i believe that your view of your future life is unrealistically narrow and bleak, based on narrow knowledge and inaccurate assumptions.
Porn actresses are ACTING, and they are being paid to act that way in films. there is no reason to beleive that the actress who portrays that personality and acceptance on screen will be the same thing in real life.
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it sounds like your REAL desire in life is to have an accepting women as your wife who is open, non-judgmental, and interested in sex. In fact, i would say this is what most men in all countries want. Luckily, MANY women in all countries meet that description.
But you have to meet real women, and talk to them, over time, to learn that this is true.
Give you viewpoint and your assumptions, i understand why you are depressed. But your assumptions are incorrect, not realistic, for yourself or for women.
2007-12-26 18:11:32 · answer #5 · answered by nickipettis 7 · 3⤊ 1⤋
I think you need to look around a little better women are very sexual and some are just waiting on the right person to bring out that animal you need to understand this.
2007-12-26 17:53:29 · answer #6 · answered by datsleather 6 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Well dude, seek some mental help, no offense. There's an extremely low chance you'll get a porn star. Your best bet is to go to America on vacation, and manage to meet one. It's just too hard though. They're celeberities, and are covered with security. Sorry man.
2007-12-26 17:05:46 · answer #7 · answered by 87'Souljas 2 · 1⤊ 2⤋
Hmmm....tough call. I would do some searching around for brothels. I think a prostitute would serve you just as well.
I know it is demented, but I actually see why you feel the way you do.
Keep your eyes out for the women that are the most "open" and pursue them.
Good luck.
2007-12-26 17:05:42 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 2⤋
Oh Grow Up
2007-12-26 17:34:48 · answer #9 · answered by TL 6 · 1⤊ 1⤋
"I bind thee and the porn star of thy choice in holy matrimony."
- Rev. Moody Mike
2007-12-26 17:16:34 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋