My bf always talks about he wants kids with me but he said the time isnt right yet,i was taking pill but must of missed a few days,i dont know how he's going to react,i'm dreading telling him?what shall i say?
2007-12-26 06:25:58 · 49 answers · asked by Anonymous in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Pregnancy
just show him ya belly and say i got a surprise for you
2007-12-26 06:28:54 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 4⤋
Have you taken a test to confirm pregnancy? Start there.
If it comes out negative, you should wait a few days to see if your preiod comes. If not, give a call to your doctor. if you are on the pill and missed, it may be your body adjusting to the hormones.
If it is positive, save the test. Sit him down and perhaps show him the test. Make sure you guys will have some alone time. If this is something you know he'd be happy about, you may want to do something special like make a special dinner and serve non-alcoholic sparkling cider. and then when he asks why non-alcoholic, let him know pregnant women cant drink liquor. or buy a baby bib that said, "daddy loves me".
if it isnt something you planned and he may be caught off guard, you may just want to be upfront and honest, and then give him time to react. let's hope his reaction is a good one!
2007-12-26 06:36:35 · answer #2 · answered by dianadoops 2 · 0⤊ 2⤋
First off, make sure you are pregnant. Use an over the counter test and if it is positive, go see your doctor to ensure you really are.
Once that is out of the way, then just tell him. Not on the phone but in person in a place where both of you can have time to talk without distractions.
Not too crazy about the saying "it takes a village" but it is a LOT easier when two parents participate in baby's life.
2007-12-26 06:40:56 · answer #3 · answered by Chazzer 3 · 0⤊ 2⤋
OMG - you're having sex with your bf and you just "must of missed a few days" Oh, that is going to go over like a lead balloon. I would be dreading it too if I were you, because you pulled a fast one on him, either stupidly or purposely, and he will not be happy about it AT ALL. There is nothing to say except the truth. Good Luck!
2007-12-26 06:37:04 · answer #4 · answered by Shilo 7 · 0⤊ 2⤋
Just spit it out! Nothing will change what you have to say, but it is important that you have decided what you want. Try not to be pushy - it is an enormous thing for anyone to take in and I'm sure he will want time to think about the consequences of being a daddy versus not. Obviously lots depends upon your situation, ages etc. You must do what is right for you both and if you cannot come to an agreement then you must do what is right for you. This must be a big dilemma, good luck
2007-12-26 06:31:50 · answer #5 · answered by Hencor72 6 · 0⤊ 3⤋
For one, he's not going to be happy since he had expressed about waiting for the right time to have kids. I'm sure he wanted to be financially secured and ready to be a responsible father. Best to be prepared if he decide that he needs some space from you once you break the news to him. There's no easy way to tell a guy that they are going to be a father especially when the pregnancy is unplanned.
2007-12-26 06:31:49 · answer #6 · answered by sxysalsa 4 · 0⤊ 2⤋
lol the time is never exactly right. at least your wanted to have kids. me and my bf didn't want any at least not at the point when i got pregnant with our first daughter. pretty much the best thing you can do is just sit him down and tell him. i texted my bf when i got pregnant the first time lol. i was afraid to actually say it to him. everything will work out how its meant to in the end. so here we are now i'm due in 7 weeks with our second daughter. if he gets mad it won't last forever i mean he might go through what my bf did and freak out for awhile. but he'll get over it when he's holding his baby.
2007-12-26 06:35:01 · answer #7 · answered by Kimi 4 · 0⤊ 3⤋
If he is a man and has told you what he said should be happy...but some women want to get pregnant to keep a man...when the man has still the choice....and the women goes ahead just hoping its OK....DID you ask HIM if it was OK??? then you are as bad as the others just after there own goal....seems you got A LOT to answer to yourself.....we all no sex is nice and we enjoy it but that has one end only....think the whole word now is using sex as a sport....im im no goody 2 shoes...
2007-12-26 06:44:50 · answer #8 · answered by Tiggy want's a bit..... 4 · 1⤊ 2⤋
You just have to come out and say it. He will notice soon enough, anyway. You shouldn't be totally dependant on the pill to keep you from having kids anyway because people do get pregnant while on the pill, it is not 100% effective.
2007-12-26 06:30:16 · answer #9 · answered by Valerie 4 · 0⤊ 3⤋
You have asked this question a lot. You asked this question in "trying to conceive" many times. You say you "missed a few days with taking the pill" but your question has appeared in Trying to Conceive many times.
You also said that you think your boyfriend wants to be a male escort?
Hmmm....
Note: Thank you kramisin! That's exactly what I'm sayin! She just posted not 20 minutes ago that she wasn't sure if she would be pregnant...then 15 minutes ago, posted another one about not sure if she's pregnant...now she's sure? You guys need to click on her avatar. She's not very truthful.
2007-12-26 06:28:48 · answer #10 · answered by Beth 6 · 1⤊ 4⤋
I was like your BF once.......never the right time to be a "daddy". However, I'll never forget how proud I was when it finally happened....I couldn't wait to go out and tell the whole world! Changed my whole way of thinking and changed my life for the better.
2007-12-26 06:30:51 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 3⤋