I mean like what to do...how 2 do it....where my hands go...etc...I need good details and lots of advice
2007-12-26 05:45:05 · 33 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
The good Lord made sex so easy that it requires no training whatsoever. Get your girlfriend to tell you what feels good to her, and experiment with that.
2007-12-26 05:51:24 · answer #1 · answered by Computer Guy 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Make an agreement before your all-important, big old kiss that you will giggle, chuckle, even out-right laugh all the way through this clumsy first stab (lol) at lovemaking.
Let her tell and show you where your hands should go...assume nothing! Your hands are the paint brush, let her be the artist, you'll learn a lot.
Oh, and bring a secret bag of her favorite cookies along for afterwards...a few crumbs left in the sheets are sometimes a good thing!
2007-12-26 05:55:07 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well....... a lot of it depends on what your gf likes.
First off, you are going to have to relax a little... the whole idea of sharing yourself is to have fun with the person you love... some people use a little bit of alcohol to calm the nerves but make sure you're not overdoing it. ( who wants to be smashed at a time like that anyway?)
Theres no set formula for having sex.... everyone likes different things at different times, so what works good to some, sucks for others. Relax, be yourself, and pay attention to her. Even if she isn't talking, theres always clues to "read" what she likes and doesn't like. Keep the pressure to a minimum and enjoy it. :D
2007-12-26 05:54:16 · answer #3 · answered by jaysen_07 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe you aren't as ready as you think you are. So, take your time.
First of all, relax.
Then make out with your girlfriend. If you guys both get "turned on", then you're okay and ready to go.
If you still are unsure ask your gf what she likes. Then even if it is awkward the first time you can still improve later. It isn't that big a deal.
It can all come together later.
2007-12-26 06:03:10 · answer #4 · answered by tourbillionlechat 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you feel your ready.. let your bodies do the work and make sure to have protection at hand.. no excuse for not being safe!!
believe me.. when your making out and rubbing around.. your hands and bodies will just start.. go slow and dont rush.. besides.. if you get in a hurry you could have an accident and end up with one..
easy version tab A into slot A .. plenty of foreplay and going slow will keep ya both from getting hurt..
2007-12-26 05:51:31 · answer #5 · answered by jeselynn_81 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Try not to stress about it. You sound like a really great guy. Remember, everyone has to start somewhere and none of us really know how its done until we try.
Start by making sure you both use contraception - that will help to reassure you. Find a comfortable place where you can be realy alone and set the mood.
Relax and help your girlfriend to relax - remember she will be anxious too. Just follow your intuition and do what comes naturally. Ask your girlfriend what she likes too.
Then both of you need lots of practice!!
2007-12-26 05:50:12 · answer #6 · answered by Suzita 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
This is not the right place to get details. However, just do what you feel like doing. It really does come naturally. And, learning is a lot of fun, when you are with someone that you love and that loves you.
2007-12-26 05:48:45 · answer #7 · answered by nurse ratchet 6 · 1⤊ 1⤋
it is 90% instinct but as for the rest, communicate, tell her what feels good and listen to her, if you are attentive you will be able to tell what feels good to her, or just ask. Don't be afraid to tell her of your inexperience. For many women this is a turn-on anyway. For the most part let it happen; it is natural and wonderful especially with someone you truly love and care for.
2007-12-26 05:52:53 · answer #8 · answered by Kevin M 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
READ THIS!!!!!!!!
You follow first off what feels good.
don't rush to you're pleasure, make her happy first and it'll even be better for you
know you'll *** quickly so gently use your fingers to get her off befor you even penetrate her
also ask if you can enter her before you do
don't be afraid to ask what she'd like you to do
pay attention to her entire body and help her relax before you even go to the "sexual" spots
when she gives you singnals that what you are doing is good don't speed up or try to make it more intense for her, stay right there and continue at the same speed.
before you get to sexual make sure she nderstands that you want to make her feel great and that means she might have to tell you what to do or how as you learn how to please her.
2007-12-26 06:10:30 · answer #9 · answered by old me... past sucks 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go with ur instincts and what u want to do with her. U can't go wrong if u follow how u feel and do what it is u want. Girls can since if ur unsure of urself but not to worry most girls are unsure of themselves as well she's probably just as nervous as u are. If u go with ur fantasy of what u want to do with her or how to touch her u won't go wrong and I guarntee she'll enjoy it. Another words no one can tell u what it is to do everyones experience is different. Follow how u feel and what u want which will lead to finding out what she wants...
2007-12-26 05:52:00 · answer #10 · answered by Lilith 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋