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I really wan't a hair cut but Mom say's no?
I really wan't a hair cut but Mom say's no?
I want side bangs and a different cut
I have brown hair, highlites, medium length, and is stright. What do I do to get her to say yes. I am 13 years old. Also what are some good styles for teen girls (not emo please). One my Mom might think is acceptiable

2007-12-26 04:50:44 · 20 answers · asked by Atomic Dolphin 2 in Pregnancy & Parenting Adolescent

20 answers

Try to negotiate with your mom - pick out a hair style in a magazine that's not too different and agree to go anywhere even if it's a hair cuttery, but wait a few days.

Thank you and good day.

2007-12-26 05:15:00 · answer #1 · answered by Lori 5 · 1 0

I would try to find a hair style that fits your face shape, body style, and skin condition (if you are trying to dye your hair, find one that compliments your skin tone...makes all the difference.)

Explain to your mother that you will keep up with this style and style it WELL. Most parents issues with new hair cuts is that it will either look horrible or you wont style it. I think the biggest problem parents have is the styling issue.

You say you dont want emo hair cuts, so Im assuming you also dont want punk, goth, straight-edge, gothic lolita, modern, or anything "original".

Your best bet is going for a bob. They're really cute, go well with almost all faces/body types, and are easily styled with a flat iron or a curling iron, depending on the look your going for.

You need to reasure your mom that you WILL style your hair. I kinda think thats a big deal for a 13 year old. I think when I was 13, the girls with the reall cute hair cuts still had their mom fix them up. Amazing how much 1 year difference will make. I it doesnt work this year, try next year because

a) you will be a high schooler. This may totally change your moms mind.

b) you will be more responsible, and have more chores and such to take care of.

c) Keeping your grades up will help alotl Prove to your mom that you can take care of yourself and make yourself look nice. Most parents idea of rewards is when you get really good grades. It's the key to getting yourself further in life, AND making your mom happy. What a deal!

If all else fails, ask for layers. Layers can make a hair cut look totally different, and make the style POP! Plus I don't think your mom would faint over a few layers =)

Explain to her about how your hair makes you feel right now, and what a new hair cut could do. Parents need to understand that a new hair cut can TOTALY change their child's self confidence.

If you don't know what a bob is, Victoria Beckham (Posh Spice from the Spice Girls) has a VERY short bob. Bobs very from super-short to shoulder length, even longer. It's a pretty elastic hair cut.
Hope that helped!
Sorry for any typos, I have a ver sticky keyboard. Tried to get them all.

2007-12-26 05:07:00 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1 0

Honor thy mother and father that the days may be long upon the earth.

You are too young to make that decission....wait until you are gone at 18.

She might not know what length you consider for a hair cut.

Do you have religious beliefs about not cutting your hair.

God does say that long hair is for the female, especially in prayer.

Besides you can do more hairstyles with long hair. You are getting to the age when you will go to dress up parties and will wish you had your longer hair.

Did you know that guys are usually attracted to gals with long hair????????

Short hair makes one questionable as to if they are a boy or such.

2007-12-26 07:32:06 · answer #3 · answered by LandOfMisty 5 · 1 0

I bet you have some little girl hair cut that your mom loves and you hate. You can either Ask her to let you pick your own hair cut for the first time in your life or you can sneak off and get it how you want. I rarely say go behind your parents back because I am one. But it is just hair and it will grow back and once she sees it she may like it.

PS
I am getting cussed for telling you to go behind your parents back. Normaly that is a bad thing to do but even I would do it.

Sometimes it is better to beg forgivness then ask permission.

2007-12-26 07:04:14 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1 0

Let it go for a while. Your mom said no several times already correct? She won't back down probably because she doesn't think you need it or will look good with it. She is your mother and does know best. So let it go for a while and try asking again in a month or two. Nicely that is.

2007-12-26 05:40:39 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1 0

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2016-10-19 23:34:07 · answer #6 · answered by lumley 4 · 0 0

a haircut is recommended every 6-8 weeks to keep the hair healthy, encourage new growth, and trim split ends. communicate to your mother these reasons for a cut. ask her why she doesn't feel the need for one -is it the expense and upkeep, etc. try to come to a conclusion that will benefit both of you. a good stylist can choose a cut that is flattering and inexpensive.

2007-12-26 04:54:59 · answer #7 · answered by KitKat 7 · 1 0

pick some nice styles that you may like and show them to mom. maybe she will like them and go along with you on getting your hair cut and styled!! but if she says no just go along with her. she must have her reasons sweetie. maybe ask her again in a few months!!! good luck to you!!!

2007-12-26 04:54:34 · answer #8 · answered by sherry s 6 · 2 0

ask your mum to take you to the hairdressers and discuss a style together with the hairdresser or look thrugh a hair magazine before you go to see what she finds acceptable.
why is she saying no as she has obviously let you have it coloured so why is she resisting to you having it cut?

2007-12-26 04:54:41 · answer #9 · answered by Saima S 2 · 5 0

Look through a magazine or somesort with your mom deciding on things you agree on. Good luck!
...2008 will be great...

2007-12-26 04:55:12 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1 0

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