I mean I can appreciate an attractive guy, andI sometimes think a man's body looks good. I am also attracted to a guy's physique.
But, I'm not really turned on by d*cks. When a guy comes near me, he doesn't smell as good as a girl, and I easily get turned off. But, seeing a women naked turns me on.
I can't imagine having sex with a guy. It looks too painful and unsatisfying. Guys are so rough!
But, I can imagine having sex with a women, because they are so soft, conforting, and compassionate.
Watching men has sex with women doesn't make me feel as good as watching women have sex with other women. I get off on watching girl-on-girl action!
Is this some twisted kind of bisexuality, or are my feelings trying to tell me something about myself?
Be honest. Not necessarily rude, but honest!
I'm a 19 year old girl.
2007-12-26 04:39:26 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Health ➔ Women's Health
I've been married for 14 years and looking at a d*ck still doesn't do it for me! They are quite ugly, then again so are ours! It's not the d*ck that does it for me, it's more emotional than physical. If you are with someone you love and treats you well then that is more important. I think women are more beautiful than men and it is normal to look at a beautiful woman and appreciate her beauty. That doesn't make you gay. Once you have sex with a guy you will enjoy it. Men can be comforting and compassionate too. Just find the right man who cares about you, not just sex! I think watching porn can be a turn on but it is just fantasy, not reality. It is OK to get turned on by watching girls together, but it doesn't mean you would actually do it yourself! You are normal, just find a nice boyfriend and enjoy. If being with a man doesn't do it for you and you feel strongly about not liking men, then it is OK to be with a woman. You just need some experience with men to find out. I think alot of women feel the same way, so don't be so hard on yourself. Take my advice, I'm 40 years old and have some experience!!!
2007-12-26 06:42:11 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Have you ever kissed a boy or done anything else with them and if so think of if you liked it? A lot of people think that a man's body is not as attractive as a womans. Your right they look like they would hurt but if you fall in love w/one you'll eventually love it. I think woman are beautiful but I wouldn't want to touch one-that grosses me out. If you really like looking at girls and watching girl on girl then you might be bi or gay. If you've ever had any physical contact w/a boy and liked it then you might not be gay. You can't tell until you get a little older or actually have a boyfriend.
2007-12-26 04:45:47 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
It sounds like you're more afraid of men than anything. Maybe you've had bad experiences with men during your childhood or something. Not all men are rough. But I think you're the only one who can really know who you're attracted to.
2007-12-26 04:42:59 · answer #3 · answered by Underground Man 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
it sounds like you are bisexual which is perfectly fine you need to experiment with a man and a woman not necessarily having sex with one of each but a relationship too i would rather have an emotional relationship with a woman and a sexual one with a man good luck
2007-12-26 04:43:40 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
well to be honest. i kinda feel the same way..
but its not painful..
and i cant say ive ever had sex with a woman..
but let me know how this goes please....
2007-12-26 05:25:24 · answer #5 · answered by Sara F 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Moria M. I understand your attraction towards females, I have it too. But I am a male ! Please deny those feelings and find a gentleman who you can open up too and maybe he can be the gentle giver you need ! The word of God damns homosexuality. If I were a girl I would be in the same shoes you are in ! Please for the sake of your eternal soul,stay straight !!!
2007-12-26 04:54:28 · answer #6 · answered by lonewolf 7 · 1⤊ 4⤋