What are some of the things I should expect when I lose my virginity. Are there any precautions I should take. (I also heard that there's a chance of bleeding).
2007-12-26 04:03:40 · 13 answers · asked by alexmorrison2 2 in Health ➔ Women's Health
There's a chance of bleeding when you loose your virginity but it doesn't happen to everyone. You need to use a condom to protect from STDs and pregnancy. Also, get on birth control to prevent pregnancy. Using a lubrication, like KY, can help minimize the pain. It most likely will hurt but if you just relax it can minimize the pain. Good luck, be safe, and don't rush into sex for someone else! God bless!
2007-12-26 04:09:36 · answer #1 · answered by Krissy 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Always use a condom!
There should be little or no pain at all if you are properly relaxed. This is the most important thing, if you are worred that it will hurt then you will be all tensed up and it WILL hurt.
Make sure you are in the mood, and have foreplay first. If you are not lubricated then buy a lubricant. Soft lighting, a little wine, music will help ease you.
Then just go in slowly. Even if there is some pain it would only last a few seconds, but the main thing is to be relaxed so your vaginal muscles wont be all tightened up.
2007-12-28 00:41:32 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well im a guy so i realize im not going to make much of a case here, but i'll offer my insight from talking to my GF since i took her virginity. before we did it we talked about it for a good week. i was under the impression all virgins bleed but that not true. my GF did not bleed, not right away anyway. after she went home she said she found some blood spots on her undies, but nothing serious. she also said it did not hurt but it was uncomfortable and definetly not enjoyable. after about 4-5 times of having sex she started enjoying it more and after that she started craving it more and more. we have been together for almost 5 years now, and things are still going great. getting back to expectations definetly expect it to feel uncomfortable and if your man is huge, try to use a small vibe first if not then you might experience the pain some women talk about. if he 6-7 inches in length and if you can wrap your pointing finger and thumb around his member then i think you'll be in a safe zone for a first timer. and make sure you use protection. trust me planned parenthood, although its a great organization, you dont want to be there for anything serious. USE CONDOMS, or get birth control, even better would be both. call up your local planned parenthood, they offer free birth control. hope i helped
2007-12-26 04:26:53 · answer #3 · answered by ALF 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
First don't do it unless you really feel its right. Nothing worse than loosing it with someone who will be gone the next day. Also be prepared to get pregnant. Every time you have sex you have that chance.
Use protection. Stay comfortable. First time put your legs over his shoulders. This will help with discomfort. Yes you may bleed a little. Every girl is different. I don't recall bleeding. Make sure it's inside and your comfortable. Don't do it your first time outside behind some buildings.
2007-12-26 04:11:34 · answer #4 · answered by Bradygirl 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Talking about the purely physical, you may have some bleeding and some pain. You can always put down a towel for the blood spotting. The pain can be alleviated by using a lubricant, although the lubricant on the condom should do the trick.
2007-12-26 04:07:44 · answer #5 · answered by BornAndBred 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wow, there is alot of things to think about when you begin to take this first step. Safety first, your mate should be willing to use condoms and dental dam if you are going to do oral as well. Take your time most guys just want to get it in and get their pleasure. For you and can be painful if your hymen is in place that is where the bleeding can come from or if he is to large.
Your first time you remember forever good or bad. Make sure you want to do and that your are not doing it to please your mate. Good luck
2007-12-26 04:17:42 · answer #6 · answered by whenyourready 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ure blead on the 1st time, not much but a lil .
it wont hurt really if u were sexually excited and already been in the mood..
hmm, ah as your vergina t first wouldnt be very used to starnger objects coming itno it , you will be incomfortable the first time, but then with time and "use" its like a muscle it will get used to it and be very normal :)
ah if u ask me id say condoms even if u know this person well..better aware dear..and u might as well wait till u get married ;) its better for all sides :p
blesses and be careful :)
2007-12-26 04:19:49 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
WICKED!!!!!! I think I'm going to be laughing all nite thinking about that one! Duno where you get them from, but keep 'em coming!!!! 10/10 + a star for you! Thanks!
2016-04-11 01:22:52 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
there is a chance of bleeding, may hurt, u's protection
2007-12-26 04:07:48 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
yo shawty your gonna blled some(popped cherry) the girl i did didn't bleed much. Use a condom
2007-12-26 04:12:40 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋