Is the following not some sort of insanity? If so what is the exact disorder? I'm starting to hand wash pots pans and other dishes (I've done dishes all my life so it wasn't like I wasn't doing it right or making a mess or anything) then my mother screams at me and tells me not to touch the dirty dishes to which I go ok and don't and leave, she then starts doing them and shouts angrily about how I'm lazy and worthless for not washing the dishes. She does things like this all the time, tells me to do something or says she wants something and if I do that or get that she'll flip out and make some sort of argument over it and almost always there is nothing wrong... is this not insanity?
2007-12-26 03:43:18 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Social Science ➔ Psychology
This frustrates me so much, I shake because it's so damn frustrating and hearing her scream constantly over nothing and everything is starting to really mess with my head.
2007-12-26 03:44:48 · update #1
i do talk to her about it, she claims it never happens and goes on 20 minute rants about how much she hates her family
2007-12-26 03:54:12 · update #2
How old is your mom? Has she always been this way or just recently? I would say she might be bipolar, but if she is in or nearing her 50s it might be menopause. I know when my mom went thru menopause she was like a monster.
2007-12-26 03:54:29 · answer #1 · answered by Holly 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Thats just your mom taking out steam on you man..(.I can relate to you on that coz i'm goin thru the same thing.)..Dont worry n dont take it to heart theyre only taking out anger on you coz they have nobody else to take it out on...you're her easiest target!But they say that they pick on the ones they luv...(cant wait until we can all do the same to our future kids!;))..And dont get worked up over it and argue with her-she's probably just stressed out over something or the other...just be patient with her-maybe thats what she needs...
2007-12-26 12:13:51 · answer #2 · answered by dg04 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
try talking to her and if that doesn't work..try your best to take her to a therapist ...she seems like she has something shes thinking about that's annoying her.. probably has alot of stress..so her way of releasing that is taking it out on you.sorry. one thing you can do to clam her down is try to make her laugh or buy her a cup of coffee..do something small..even make her a card saying how you feel..and for you don't let it get to you..relax..sit down. close your eyes..take deep breathes..then try and hug her. hope that helps. =)
2007-12-26 13:52:08 · answer #3 · answered by Electra 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hey, my mom does the same thing,i always thought that it was insanity but its maybe just stress.
2007-12-26 11:51:39 · answer #4 · answered by *Its_Brittn3y_b!tch* 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
speak to her, explain how your feeling. if she won't listen it's best to go and speak to a proffesional or just maybe start with your doctor.
2007-12-26 11:51:31 · answer #5 · answered by con_siglieri 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I believe your mother doesn't have any patience that is why she's acting like that. Don't let it get to you. talk to her about it.
2007-12-26 11:51:07 · answer #6 · answered by Star T 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋