I've never been hurted so much.I am young,14.& i got so naive that i didnt realise what he was doing to me.I thought that he loved me and planned to face the future forever together but i was wrong.He then dumped me,i cry everytime i see pictures of us together...
2007-12-26 02:40:20 · 23 answers · asked by Farrera♥Dopre 4 in Entertainment & Music ➔ Polls & Surveys
I can tell you this,im still a virgin.But we did some sexual activities.
2007-12-26 02:43:08 · update #1
Nope, I am young too, but I've never had a boyfriend, been alone with a boy in a room, or anything like. It doesn't necessarily make you naive. It could mean that you really trusted him, and maybe he was good at manipulating. Although, eventually, he should've really felt compassion or something for you, so that he'd know better not to hurt you. It might've been too soon to do anything, because you guys might've not known each other so well. He probably felt comfortable using you.
2007-12-27 00:57:10 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You don't have to be a woman to get taken advantage of for sexual pleasures.
Some time ago, a gal approached me and said she liked me. I was alone, so I was ok with the idea. I wasn't sure about what I wanted in life at that time and was honest about it. She seemed ok with that and still wanted to have sex with me. After a year I decided I might be ok in settling down with her. When I started talking about being serious, like she had pretended she had wanted for a year, everything went sour. Within a week, she told me that she was only using me for my big winkie and would never settle down with me. Just like that, it was all over.
How's that for feeling used?
2007-12-26 03:02:49 · answer #2 · answered by Captain Jack ® 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be careful. A guy might act lovingly toward you due to physical desire but not really love you. I think that in some cases he may not even be truly aware that you are more emotionally attached to him than he is to you. Try not to confuse physical attraction and lust with love.
2007-12-26 02:46:21 · answer #3 · answered by mikayla_starstuff 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes...you are young! Don't let a guy use you--stand up for yourself & have some pride! There will be many more relationships in the future & you need to be prepared to handle them maturely!
Don't worry...this too shall pass!
2007-12-26 02:43:57 · answer #4 · answered by buckshotbullies 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You need to talk to a trusted adult.
I hope you heal quickly, but never forget this lesson.
Best of wishes.
2007-12-26 02:43:48 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hun,no guy who loves you would want to just have sex with you...and then dump you. Oh well, you live and learn.
2007-12-26 02:43:21 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm really sorry to hear about that hun.To answer your question though, I'm a Virgin so no i'v never been used.
2007-12-26 02:43:45 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
So now you must understand that the next time you should reverse the role and then DUMP the dude!
2007-12-26 02:47:01 · answer #8 · answered by Candice 7 · 0⤊ 2⤋
Don't dwell on it, dear. Just consider it as a good lesson learned.
2007-12-26 02:44:25 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
yes u are naive.But u still have to get over it..life goes on dear girl..Just treat this as a lesson OKAY?
2007-12-26 02:43:47 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋