i asked a question about it yesterday. this black girl from the u.s contacted me on myspace months ago with a friend request which i accepted, she wanted to talk on messenger so she added me.
the first conversation i had with her was nonsensical she kept talking about the subject of race and that i had mixed ethnicity that i probablly didnt no about.
i told her infact no i hadnt, i told her i was white and a french nationality.
i told her i had no ethnicity whatsoever, none in my bloodline i new of on my dads side or my mums side.
she continued on her verbal crap and nonsensical suggestions so i blocked her.
but now she keeps contacting me through different ids. messaging me about this topic of race and the possibility of a ' mixed ' background.
i swear if she doesnt give it up i will make it my buisiness to track her like an animal.
she has be extremely annoyed, she wont give up trying to contact me or reach me.
she even uses a forum im a member of where you have user names
2007-12-26 00:03:54 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Other - Cultures & Groups
and she is spreading all these false lies, gossip and speculation....trying to
get others to ridiculing me.
trying to get others to believe her crap, lies and garbage about me.
defaming who iam and my character.
has anyone else ever had this, and how did you deal with it ?
2007-12-26 00:04:15 · update #1
grrrrrr!! im really battling with anger right now....grrrrraaarghhh!!!
sorry im just so angry
2007-12-26 00:19:39 · update #2
Steph W : im sure about my forfathers and no theres no mixed ethnicity.
and i can know what my bloodline and ancestry is. iam sure.
you might not be sure of yours, but iam of mine.
good day
2007-12-26 00:41:48 · update #3
mikey : i fully agree and yes you are a 100 PERCENT right. all the best
2007-12-26 00:55:08 · update #4
Peachy : yes i agree to, -- supposed i mentioned her racial identity because i was exasperated and angry...sorry no offence
2007-12-26 00:56:48 · update #5
vintner : - i disagree - you havent got a clue what your talking about- and neither have you been in my predicament.
plus. what you said was ' irrelevant ' and made no sense .
2007-12-26 02:31:05 · update #6
And what? - and what ? > what the hell are you talking about ?
2007-12-26 02:32:47 · update #7
hey!!!!!!!!!!!! I'd be very interested to know if it's the same nutcase that's been doing it to me (seriously)... drove me nuts and in the end I got very very nasty...
I hope you don't think I'm being racist...because I'm really really not, but there is a group of black girls (not collectively) who do this sort of stuff (especially on myspace) for kicks.
2007-12-26 00:13:40 · answer #1 · answered by mikey 5 · 4⤊ 1⤋
I got mine in the evening and left them until the next morning so they'd had a chance to look around their cage and have a sleep first. The next day I started with simply putting a treat on my hand and letting them sniff around and take it off without trying to touch them, I did this for a week or so before attempting to stroke them and then once they were used to that I began picking them up for short periods of time. I was never once bitten by my gerbils, even when one had a tumour and I had to apply cream. Best rodents around, they are so friendly! They rarely bite, the only trouble is that they are very fast so you have to keep on your toes when handling.
2016-05-26 06:55:48 · answer #2 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My question in response to your question is: Why did you feel the need to post a question identifying the race of the person involved? Bad manners and stupidity are not confined to any one race. You say she continues to contact you under different IDs. Don't you have to accept those IDs before she can contact you? Sounds as if you need to be a little more choosy who you accept. MySpace, as with other websites, is full of people who have nothing to do but sit at a computer. I might suggest that you totally ignore her. No matter what she says, just delete it. She is getting her kicks off of your responses. If you refuse to play her game she'll soon tire and move on. Even if it takes a few weeks or months - it'll be worth it. Believe me, she won't feed her needs by continuing to waste time on someone who won't respond to her. Just don't let her goad you into responding to what she says or what others say as a result of her posts. She'll soon become a dinosaur in the annals of time.
2007-12-26 00:24:11 · answer #3 · answered by Peachy 1 · 2⤊ 2⤋
If you find it impossible to ignore her, change accounts. Those are your only options; you cannot "track her like an animal."
I think the really fantastic thing about typing questions and answers instead of saying them aloud is that a person has time to EDIT. Really, no matter how angry you are, there is no need to mention the fact that you are "pure," which you say is possible but trust me isn't, and the fact that she is black. No wonder she's out to get you--you angered someone as immature as you, and now you're suffering for it.
2007-12-26 02:22:57 · answer #4 · answered by vintner 6 · 1⤊ 2⤋
I don't think any normal person would think that there's something wrong with having a different racial background in any way (I am bi-racial myself), but just don't argue with her about it, she's making assumptions, nobody can't really know where anybody elses forefathers, or anybody's own forefathers come from.
Block her anywhere that is possible, tell her that you're really not interested in talking about this subject because she can't possiby know where you may or may not originate from, tell her that she's buggin' you and she needs to leave you alone and mind her own business and not talk s*** about something that she knows nothing about!
2007-12-26 00:20:44 · answer #5 · answered by Steph W 2 · 2⤊ 2⤋
If she's american (like me) and is defaming your charachter, you have legal rights against her. You can sue, and win, for 'defamation of charachter'. Warn her once, publicly, in all the forums and locations she is bothering you. Find her and follow through. Our embassy there should be able to help you more. I've had it happen to me twice, and always by a black girl. Curious...
2007-12-26 00:10:57 · answer #6 · answered by iamsuranovi 6 · 3⤊ 1⤋
I could have sworn I saw a question similiar to this a few weeks ago.
Not this crap again.
2007-12-26 08:21:27 · answer #7 · answered by Popsqually 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Why not post her name and details on the net and reveal her
2007-12-26 00:20:25 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
tell her you are going to contact the IM provider and myspace about harassment and do so. This is illegal. They will cancel her accounts.
2007-12-26 00:08:32 · answer #9 · answered by glamour04111 7 · 3⤊ 1⤋
Be careful who you add. Be thankful it wasn't some serial killer. Just ignore her.
2007-12-26 02:13:46 · answer #10 · answered by Cesaria Barbarossa 7 · 1⤊ 1⤋