2007-12-25 19:43:38 · 15 answers · asked by MALIK 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
this is not pg13
2007-12-25 19:47:05 · answer #1 · answered by Tina 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I am going to agree with the answeres that advised for you to try and be her friend first. Also, try not to think so much about the sex. Try and have romantic moments. Start by cuddling, kissing, caressing, and let one thing lead to another. Then when you are sure that things are going in the direction that you want, dont START TALKING. Men ruin it when they start talking other than to say I love you. Just go with the flow and be gentle, close your eyes and let love guide you. Also, if you see that you are getting a positive response from her, just go with it, dont comment on it until the act is over. (remember, no talking please)
2007-12-26 06:27:12 · answer #2 · answered by Yahoo User 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well wait for about a month or so to pass but if not then you could try this. Get scented candles. Light them when she comes home from work. Treat her to a candlelit dinner that you made (if you can cook) or at an expensive resturant. You could give her a present of sexy lingerie or dress for her to wear. When dinner is done just wear boxers feed her chocolates and offer to give her a massage with fragrant oil. Flower petals on your bed. Take a bubble bath together. Then tell her you want to do it with her and lie down on the bed naked.
2007-12-26 03:53:45 · answer #3 · answered by NekoHime 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
well try to take her out to a nice dinner the come home start her a bubble bath help wash her back then go to the room were u have candles and soft music playing and she most likely go from there good luck and congrats on the getting married wish the best for you both.
2007-12-26 04:01:09 · answer #4 · answered by Tinker Bell 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hey ... relax, i guess u dont know ur partner very well so there is awardness. its okay, dont be in a hurry.
be alone ... no family, no friends, no phones
talk to her, flirt with her, romance her & set the mood with an early or light dinner with wine ... rest will follow !!
2007-12-26 03:52:45 · answer #5 · answered by Pritee 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
why on earth cant you start it?did you know her before you got married...if not ..why dont you then try &be her friend before getting to be her lover...to begin with just talking is a good aphrodisiac in my opinion
2007-12-26 03:55:46 · answer #6 · answered by deviyani 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
if you are married then you should have no problem telling you new wife that you want sex. I mean she's your wife man!
Tell her you want it and START!
2007-12-26 03:55:19 · answer #7 · answered by USMCgrlandMommy 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It seems like you bought a new car, didn't take it on a test drive and really don't know how it works.
2007-12-26 04:12:22 · answer #8 · answered by Monsieur Rick 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
bhaisab.....ghunghat utha diya ki nahi....maybe thats the problem.... if shes traditional..wait a lil bit.. or just show her who the man is.. seduce her... our ancestors came up with kama sutra yaar... think of something
2007-12-26 03:52:43 · answer #9 · answered by Adi 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go have a shower, get naked, hop in bed? I think she'll clue in......
2007-12-26 03:48:04 · answer #10 · answered by doglover 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ttry getting naked to start with pal she learn you all you need to know . i hope . ?
2007-12-26 04:04:36 · answer #11 · answered by the_silverfoxx 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋