say for example i liked this guy but he never showed any particular interest in me infront of everyone...infact i would say he would often cold shoulder me and i still would like him...sometimes when he found me looking elsewhere(i.e. not at him) he would act interested..he never spoke to me anytime but it was like full of gestures....so one day u do something that irritates him to no end...something minor like teasing...and he gets full on abusive....and u don't even know that he did that but slowly and steadily u start losing all ur friends...but he behaves infront of u as if nothing had happened....and i but obviously end up being depressive....and that so called person starts seeing another girl...or blatantly ignores u despite ur having stopped behaving is any such manner...and makes it a point to behave in a hurtful manner by ignoring u or speaking to someone else who happens to stand next to u....
simply want to know general opinion....
2007-12-25 19:32:55 · 9 answers · asked by Success 2 in Social Science ➔ Psychology
good one people r emotionally handicapped as well...............meaning they dont understand what emotions r or lets say the difference n them,when abused they have been mentally abused blocking out thier emotions so they cannot get hurt cutting them off till they cant distingiush them from the other, they r need of psychological help ..........but they believe there is not 1 thing wrong, like i said they dont reckonize the difference......it is a very complex thing n sad at that`
2007-12-25 19:55:32 · answer #1 · answered by Psychologist In The House 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
An abusive partner will railroad discussions, so that you don't have time to think about what's right and what's wrong in their behavior.
Take a moment to consider these questions. Your partner might have behaved as though these things were okay, even though it's obvious that they aren't okay...:
Do you feel that you can't discuss with your partner what is bothering you?
Does your partner frequently criticize you, humiliate you, or undermine your self-esteem?
Does your partner ridicule you for expressing yourself?
Does your partner isolate you from friends, family or groups?
Does your partner limit your access to work, money or material resources?
Has your partner ever stolen from you? Or run up debts for you to handle?
Does your relationship swing back and forth between a lot of emotional distance and being very close?
Have you ever felt obligated to have sex, just to avoid an argument about it?
Do you sometimes feel trapped in the relationship?
Has your partner ever thrown away your belongings, destroyed objects or threatened pets?
Are you afraid of your partner?
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http://quiz.ivillage.com/health/tests/daemotion.htm
2007-12-25 19:46:26 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
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2016-11-25 00:59:39 · answer #3 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
generally speaking, emotional abuse is when someone says or does something to hurt you, not physically but emotionally/mentally. People play "games" with other's emotions. Some can be real pro's at it intentionally, others while it might not be intentional, can still be very damaging. If someone is causing you pain in that way, you need to break away from them. They will only continue to hurt you, and usually it gets worse and worse.
2007-12-25 19:45:03 · answer #4 · answered by Vampaerus 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Emotional abuse is when someone else used you as a verbal or emotional whipping boy or girl. They dump all their bad stuff on you in order to make themselves feel better or superior.
Someone who unjustly messes up your reputation, and who is out to punish you, is being emotionally abusive toward you.
If this person won't talk to you face-to-face like you're both worth something, dump him.
2007-12-25 19:38:25 · answer #5 · answered by MNL_1221 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
The above sounds definitely like emotional abuse. Get out and start a new life.
If he does not talk to you in public, chances are all he really wants from you is sex and to know that he can control you and your life.
2007-12-25 19:43:27 · answer #6 · answered by HR 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Emotional abuse is what your BF is doing to you. Get away from that jerk and find yourself a real person who knows how to treat you.
2007-12-25 19:37:38 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Find someone else and forget about it or youwill end up having issues of your own
2007-12-25 19:36:47 · answer #8 · answered by Aaron D 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
sounds like someone you should get rid of...
2007-12-25 19:36:43 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋