merry christmas to all. this is my first christmas alone. where i well messed up and i looked at how i did him and really miss him . my .ex husband well i hope everyon has a good christmas.i havent i miss my husband but it was my fault over beliving a man who was only intrested in one thing. sex. merry christmas to all and a happy new year. mine isnt the same with out him my fault not his caled was out at church left a message but where i hurt him he wont even call to say nothing not even have a god new year to me but why would he aftr all i was the one who cheated on him . i really miss him . nite all
2007-12-25 17:29:59 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
and a happy new year to all to i really messed up by listing to a man only to loose everything was dear to me,
2007-12-25 17:35:23 · update #1
good for him, he didnt loose his pride,call the man you cheated with,,i also would be gone and never contact you again,, its that simple,if you think this is harsh/crude , just remember what you did to your husband, ????/
2007-12-25 22:30:27 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are a whiner and a drama queen. You ****** up and he wants nothing to do with you anymore but yet you continue pursue something that isn't even there. And being alone for Christmas is no big deal, it's just another day so get over it, you are not the only one. What you should be doing is coming up with answers to questions such as Why did I cheat on him?, Did I really love him? Am I too immature to be in a longterm relationship? along with other questions I did not mention. You should also be single for a while, I think it will do you some good.
2007-12-26 01:44:34 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 0⤋
Hope that one-night sausage stand was worth it. Most cheaters should never get married in the first place. Marriage is a job that actually requires work on both parts. Sleeping during your vows is also a bad idea. I feel nothing for you. You deserve what you got. Next time, appreciate what you have. Most don't, until it's to late (like right now!).
2007-12-26 08:42:53 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
if you had never did him like that you wouldnt be alone would you learn to know the difference in love and lust from now on and stop dropping your painties to every man who tells you what you like to hear from him ok learn from this gal and you could saved your marrage it was you not him that cheated am i not right and dont expect him to call did the other call you no probley not he was playing you and look at how you ended up divorced and alone guys have a thing called feling.s just like women do merry christmas to you to . my opion?
2007-12-26 02:13:24 · answer #4 · answered by the_silverfoxx 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I bet my ex-wife is saying the same thing. She f-ed up pretty good to earlier this year. I got the kids and she has to pay child support. Yep, the grass is not always greener on the other side. I just hope she stays out of me and the kids lives.
2007-12-26 02:23:47 · answer #5 · answered by Bones 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Well, just one advice for you my dear: learn your lesson because you can't take back what you did/said. If you made a mistake there's no point in crying over it anymore -- that's not gonna mend his heart or make him come back to you. Just be smart enough not to make the same mistake again in the future.........
2007-12-26 01:41:30 · answer #6 · answered by Lprod 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My ex wife screwed up too , stop beating yourself up over it , chalk it up for a lesson learned , just put the past behind you and move on.....
2007-12-26 01:38:32 · answer #7 · answered by Confused 6 · 3⤊ 0⤋
some can forgive and forget...some cannot...if u still love him then prove to him that ur sorry and wont do it again....try harder to win him back if theres still an oppurtunity....
2007-12-26 01:40:40 · answer #8 · answered by Sony 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋