How do I deal with a bitter and dangerous ex-wife and unfair mother?

Question

I am in post-divorce. I was forced to filed bankruptcy and almost lost everything. My ex-wife has violated the court order denying me child visitation. She's falsely accused me of kidnapping.She taunts my son saying lies and other bad things about me in front of him.She's tried to extort money from me aside and is not satisfied with the child support, daycare support , life insurance, health insurance, food, shelter, clothing, etc. that I already provide for my son. She's made attempts to steal (the little time) time I have with my son. He's only 3 years old. Especially holidays that I'm supposed to have with him. This past Christmas, she took both Christmas Eve and Christmas day, my weekend away from me.She has bitter sisters that line up against me, giving her bad advice. I have compiled journals, child visitation violation police reports and have made every attempt to get her to stop, but to no avail, no luck. Her credibility is poor with them. What's your advice? Thank-you

Answer 1

You're doing everything right - just keep EVERYTHING IN WRITING as you are doing. Keep filing reports and if she keeps going the way she is, you may very well get custody of your son as she is not acting in his best interest with her childish behavior. She may not realize this, but not only is she denying you your visitation rights, she is also denying your SON his right to visit with his father - this is not a one-sided issue as she seems to think! File for a modification of the custody agreement and bring in ALL of your documentation with you. Since she has little credibility as it is, and you are a father who is actually WANTING to be in his son's life, I'm betting the courts will look favorably on you. Good luck and keep up the fight - your son is young enough that you will both overcome this!

Answer 2

start recording all phone calls,and any face to face meetings if possible.write down all time frames you have with your child,including when he is taken from your visitation early.then take the evidence to a lawyer.she is violating the divorce decree by cheating you out of time.In the meantime,just pay your child support like you are supposed to,never late,do not,i repeat do NOT give extra money to her(if you can afford extra,then a judge could increase your amount)If the recordings can be used in court,then you stand a good chance of getting the divorce modified in your favor.

Answer 3

Just keep plugging away with the journals, police reports, court system. The deck is stacked against dads but persistence does pay off. Try to hook up with a father's rights group to help you with this. Be sure to take the high road in all things- One loss of temper or misstep and you could lose access to your kid entirely.
Maybe you could request that transfers of custody are supposed to take place somewhere that there is a witness, like a police station or CPS, to document that she is or is not allowing you to see him.

Answer 4

With all that I have read I've notice you are in a big predicament. However, if I was in the situation you are in I would first find a lawyer to fight for the visitation that I deserve. Then second, I would a way to persuade her to go to counseling with me so we could work out all of our unresolved issues. And lastly, I would ask her to not get her family involve in something that only should be handled by you and her. So, hang in-there and know that everything will workout in the future.

Answer 5

hire a good lawer and rember theera. that women got . pal ?