TTC as an 18 year old. What are you opinions? Consider these factors.
-engaged
-own apartment
-in school
-finance has a great well paying job, and is 26.
-willing to work part time, all that will be needed until school is finished.
2007-12-25 16:22:48 · 8 answers · asked by ♥Nadi♥ 1 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Trying to Conceive
Its really up to you if you think you are ready or not. personally and this is only my opinion. enjoy the time with your hubby. take things slow because its different being married and being engaged. my husband and i lived together before we got married but for some reason lol things still were way different after marriage. I'm not saying not to do it because that is your session. good luck to you and if you decide to try and have a baby than good luck in ttc! baby dust!
2007-12-25 16:49:36 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wait till you are married and a little older. I am 22 and I thought I was ready at 18. Now looking back I can't believe what a difference there is in my maturity, confidence, and ability to truly care about my husband and a possible child. I know it is really hard to wait. I know 22 is still young and I am not against young parents, just uncommitted parents. You never know if your relationship will last. I don't know your whole situation but being a Mom is about doing what is best for your child and giving them the best start in life. Also, it gets harder to finish school the longer you are in it and the more things you have on your mind. I got all distracted and settled for an Associates degree instead of a Bachelors. Good luck with whatever you decide. I hope this helped. Oh and try getting a kitten. That helps satisfy the maternal urges for a little bit.
2007-12-26 03:45:22 · answer #2 · answered by Aimee's Mommy 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, I would say honestly that you should wait till your married. If your married to someone then it is a committment. I honestly would say don't rush into it. Its great that he has a good job and that you are engaged and that you have your own apartment etc. Your going to school and you are not married yet. You should finish school and get married. Then I would say if you feel this sure afterwards then I would change my answer to a do.
2007-12-26 00:28:56 · answer #3 · answered by Caitlin 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would say finish school first. I am in school right now, I'm 28 and being pregnant while is school is stressful and it will only get worse when the baby comes. Wait until you finish so you can devote all your time to the planning of your wedding and your studies. When you graduate then you will have all your time to devote to your baby.
2007-12-26 00:28:30 · answer #4 · answered by TLS (Caitlin is coming! 5/15/08) 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
FINISH SCHOOL FIRST!
Ppl get this impression that "now that i'm 18 i can do what i want." it doesn't matter if he's got a well paying job... YOU need a well paying job! Learn to support yourself before anyone else supports you!
2007-12-26 04:27:57 · answer #5 · answered by Fob Marley 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get married and finish school. There is no rush in having a baby. Once you have a baby, going to school is tough. Finish school!
2007-12-26 00:48:01 · answer #6 · answered by luvly 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would finish school first because its much harder when you have kids. I have two boys and I am going to college its harder to find time to study. Best of luck!!
2007-12-26 00:30:45 · answer #7 · answered by Sabrina K 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If YOU think YOU are ready screw what others think!
2007-12-26 00:29:10 · answer #8 · answered by twilight_dezire 2 · 2⤊ 2⤋