Am I wrong? 10 points for the best advise. Thank you?

Question

Am I wrong to want to be a virgin and wait until marriage? I am 22 years old virgin. I am fed up with young men who do not value women. All they want to do is sleeping with women and labored you as a ****

I am at the points that I do not want to date or go out with men because at the end --all they want from me is affection or sex.

I am a good looking girl. I am a virgin and very conservative.

Answer 1

I do not believe you are in the wrong at all - I can see your point of view, as I myself have choosen to remain a virgin until I am married. I do not think you should stop dating men altogether, however. You might be surprised by how many men truly respect you for your morals and values. If not, feel free to share with him my philosophy: you want more, then see the door - might well seem dorky, but you have a right to decide and if a man can not respect that, he is not worthy of you. Furthermore, if you truly are interested in getting back into dating sometime within the foreseeable future, might I suggest you lay down the law pretty much straight for day one: many will be scared off, but those who are completely serious about your relationship and committed to you will admire you for your turthfulness and self respect. All the best and do not let men get to you: for all the ones that don't respect you, you'll come across your Romeo when the time is right, and he'll love you all the more for your incredible decision.

Answer 2

So you are goodlooking and conservative...and above all a virgin. So what's the advice you are looking for? I mean, there is no right or wrong in such a matter, right and wrong are upon how do you feel about that.
There is nothing intrinsically bad in looking for sex or affection; there is nothing bad either in rejecting the request if you don't feel like. So, what's the problem?
Possibly the problem is that all this young men want to sleep with you but they don't want marry you. This is no wonder, why should they "pay" so much what other girls "sell" cheaper? Sounds like a market problem. The problem, however, has a solution. You have to wait for the amateur who is ready to "buy" the item whatever the price. True, statistics is against you, on the other hand you cannot have everything and you cannot change the world. It's up to you.

Good Luck

Answer 3

there's no direct way to answer whether it's right or wrong. It's simply your life decision, and as long as it's legal and moral, no one can or should tell you otherwise.

That said, a man's biology generally triggers some primeval desires when the see and/or interact with a woman, and a lot of men simply cannot control it - especially men aged about the same as you. Which is not to say that there are no men who can control themselves, but far too many cannot. So you have to make your choice. Either continue dating and deal with it - eventually finding the guy you like, or just stop completely (not recommended).

Answer 4

If that's what's in your heart, then that's what you should do. Don't worry about these guys you've been meeting so far - the 'right' one will come along and support and respect you for your beliefs. Worry not what these other little fools want ~ just don't share that you're a virgin (it's none of their business) because that may only make you seem even more desirable sexually.

Answer 5

Look for a good looking boy who is a virgin and very conservative. Someone who believes in the same things you do. There are hundreds of them still around if you know where to look.

You belief is your choice however isolating yourself from the world of dating is like taking the path of celibacy. Might as well be a nun. ^_^

Answer 6

No you are not wrong. From the women I know & of my own past experience it seems to me as if you are the only one that is right.
I too have giving up on dating (I'm 30ish :). I have dating many of men, the vibe however is always the same...I feel that I owe them something or no second date. Lol...I have been on too many 1st dates and not enough second dates.
So stick to your values. I will tell my daughter, once it's gone you can't get it back.

Answer 7

You arn't wrong, just because some people dont value themselfs doesnt mean you shouldnt. Any guy who expects sex from you, isnt the guy your looking for.. You will find someone so just hold on. Not all guys are creeps.. theres other ways to have fun, sex isnt always the way to go :)

Answer 8

Congrats! It is great that you have respect for yourself, you don't see much of that anymore.
Especially with baby having babies.
there is nothing wrong with being a virgin, I stayed a virgin until I married at the age of 25...

Answer 9

no, your definitely not wrong with your decision! actually, we have the same point of view.. i also think that men who only wants to have sex with a girl are very disrespectful..

you've mentioned that you're a good looking girl.. just think of it this way---your good looks doesn't suit a man with a bad intention on you..

keep holding on to what you believe is right.. don't let anyone influence you and your decisions.. run your life the way you want it to be! good luck!c:

Answer 10

No, it is not wrong of you at all. It's actually a very good thing. Besides, it's much more special when you find someone you love to share it with. And a lot safter... you never know what you might catch from sleeping around!