Why do they come in and allow you to get attached only to leave shortly after?
2007-12-25 15:40:17 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Entertainment & Music ➔ Polls & Surveys
Have you ever thought what you could have done not to let that happen?
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2007-12-26 02:41:05 · answer #1 · answered by Carpe Diem 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
What an unfair life!!! S**t happens.
I think the best reason for that is we really do get attach to people who we know will not be with us in the near future. We always wallow in this emotion that "what a waste-I am building a good relationship here!"
The same way when we grieve for friends who passed away-even the most evil ones get praised for being good when they were living. Right?
But you know what instead of getting that sinking feeling why don't you appreciate the moment-treasure it if you will and imagine couples who have wished their partners would file for divorce because they are just sick of seeing each other when they wake up in the mornings!!!!!!!! Leave!!!!!!!!!!!!lol
2007-12-25 16:44:44 · answer #2 · answered by wolfass 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because they are what you needed at that moment. If you had not met that person at that time, you would still be stuck someplace that you don't need to be. They are a gift that will help you move along in your journey, but if they stay you will only get stuck again.
"Where does your heart want to be? Now, close your eyes and let your heart lead you on your journey. I will be waiting when you return.” - The Jade Elephant
2007-12-25 23:58:24 · answer #3 · answered by Don't Panic! 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I wish i knew, had a very good friend that one day he decided not to come back,and say not one word to nobody, if you know, they are leaving, then at least you can say good-bye, and make some kind of arrangements to keep in contact.
2007-12-25 15:44:32 · answer #4 · answered by ilovemessages 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it is the fact of life we should accept it, but i can't say why it happens with the only one who is going to leave shortly. pl. u don't say like this.
2007-12-25 22:46:22 · answer #5 · answered by new friend 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
To give you life's best/worst lesson:
Change is the only steady thing in life.
Death goes w/ birth and is the nature of all things.
So value what you have, for whatever time you have them!
2007-12-25 15:55:32 · answer #6 · answered by SAR swmr 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Selfishness!
2007-12-25 16:15:19 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because the world is a stage for dramatic relations.
2007-12-26 05:08:56 · answer #8 · answered by ayubchy 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because you might push them away coz they are not ready fo r you yet.
2007-12-26 00:40:20 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
That is just the way it is, and unfortunately life is pain.
2007-12-25 15:42:56 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋