please help!! I "did it" 4 times with diff guys.. and now i think the latest one might have gotton me pregnant.. i'm only a teen..help? mum and dad would kill me!!
2007-12-25 14:21:40 · 24 answers · asked by Anonymous in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Adolescent
i know i'm wrong ok?!?
2007-12-25 14:30:07 · update #1
You need to forget about the fact that they'll get mad. They'll get over it. You just need to fess up. Tell them that you know what you did was wrong. But you made a mistake. However, don't tell them anything, until you take a test that turns up positive.
Honestly, if you have sex, use a condom and get on birth control. Or, just don't have sex. But, if you do have sex, just don't have sex with multiple partners. There's a higher risk of getting STDs by doing that.
I hope you get the what you want.
Good Luck. =)
***PS***
Don't listen to the people calling you a hoe and a whore. Those people are mean. You know what you did was wrong so, your conscience is guily enough.
2007-12-25 14:54:31 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would let her make the choice (adoption, abortion or to keep it) and support her on it. I'd probably influence her to go with abortion or to keep it rather than adoption, however. We don't 'teach a lesson' by making a child keep a baby - this baby may be neglected and/or abused out of spite if that is your viewpoint. BQ1: Lack of paren'ts educating their children on the consequences of sex. BQ2: No idea, but there are signs pointing to soon - then again there was an ice age and the world never ended, so maybe it will just changed. BQ3: I disagree with war, I believe in peace. People getting killed? Well, err, I don't like violence and killing if that's what you mean. I also don't support capital punishment.
2016-05-26 05:57:10 · answer #2 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Look get some guidance from a local planned parenthood. And from experience you should stop having sex with multiple partner s without protection. Come on now !! Its 2007 and even teenagers can get STDs. Besides nobody on here is psychic and can tell you if you are pregnant. The only way to find out is to take a pregnancy test. Stop having sex if you can tell the guy to wear a condom. ANY TIME YOU HAVE SEX THERE IS A CHANCE OF PREGNANCY USE YOUR HEAD!!!
2007-12-25 16:35:12 · answer #3 · answered by USMCgrlandMommy 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Well, I know how you feel I am also a teen mom within the 13-16 range. First you NEED to find out if you are pregnant. Then you need to talk to your parents. There really isn't much to help you with. But, if you ever want to talk just e-mail me.
2007-12-25 14:33:49 · answer #4 · answered by נєѕѕι¢α (ανα'ѕ мσмму) 5 · 4⤊ 0⤋
Gosh people!
She didn't ask you to go around calling her a whore!
You don't know what's going on in her life!
Maybe you should ring up your best mate and tell her... Make sure it's someone that you trust though... You don't want her telling everyone.
Get with her and take a pregnancy test, or if you'd rather, take one by yourself, or you could always just go to your doctor.
I'm sorry to say, but, you're going to have to tell your parents some day, that is, if you are pregnant...
Anyway, I hope this helped!
2007-12-25 14:43:47 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
Take a pregnancy test dear. (Gosh, that's the 7th time today I said that)
Take it 3 times with 3 other different products just to be really sure.
If it's a negative, then hooray!
If it's a positive, then oh no...
Tell mommy and daddy really clear and simple with not too much details (Too much details = Lots of trouble)
And take a DNA test if you want to, but I rather wait till the baby comes out and see how he/she looks like.
2007-12-25 14:47:48 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
You need to tell your parents and get a test. If it's positive there are some options. You can choose to parent with help of family OR you could choose to place the baby for adoption.
2007-12-25 14:50:51 · answer #7 · answered by mommaknowsbest 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you cant turn back the clock, and you cant take back what you did. Go buy 2 cheap pregnancy tests take one now and then wait for two weeks and take the second one, if both are positive well you know what happens then.
I don't get it why would you sleep around, didnt you know what would happen. I wont preach, but still, what were you thinking? *shakes head* if you are pregnant than you have waisted your teenage years....stupid...stupid disisions. Next time get a real bf and wait a year with him before sleeping with him. good luck with that
2007-12-25 14:44:35 · answer #8 · answered by Blue_roses 3 · 2⤊ 1⤋
im sure your a wonderful person so just learn to wait and take it slow! youre way to young for taht! your not a **** or a whore but if you dont watch it you may be on your way! go to the clinic and talk to an adult u trust even if you cant talk to you mum and dad!
lea
p.s. if you need or want anything im here to help! just email me
leaisme_123@yahoo.com
2007-12-25 15:08:30 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Thats totally fine im 17 and i lost my viginity when i was 14 but didnt get pregnant till two months before my 17th b-day.Dont let those sterio typical people get u down live your life girl!!!! And be strong.
2007-12-25 15:22:42 · answer #10 · answered by Love peace and chicken grease 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋