I just wasn't in to him. We were together for only two weeks and I felt like he was getting too attached and I was getting more and more disinterested in him by the hour.
The whole time we were dating I felt like my wings had been clipped. I couldn't tell him certain things. I couldn't be who I am because I always had to watch what I said.
When I finally confessed to him my real feelings he made it about himself when it was about me.
It's Christmas and he says I ruined it for him, but I just couldn't take it anymore. I didn't want to start stringing him along so that he could believe I was feeling something I wasn't.
How can I cope with this because I'm extremely sad, but it was inevitable.
I'm 19 yrs old and hes 20. I'm black and he's white (really didn't have anything to do with it, but just thought I'd throw it in there.)
2007-12-25 12:06:40 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
you did the right thing so what if it was christmas. he'll get over it and so will you
2007-12-25 12:28:02 · answer #1 · answered by Bonduesa 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
If you weren't in to him and you dated for 2 weeks why the hell would you even mention it?!??! Why would you be sad?!?! You should go see a shrink and here are the facts of life you will need to learn real soon!!!
1. There is no Santa
2. There might be a Bigfoot
3. All men cheat, almost all women cheat
4. Marriage ruins relationships (moving in is the same)
5. Everyone lies (you even lie to yourself)
6. Life is not fair
Good luck and Happy Holidays. Email me if you want to
hear the truth. You can ask me anything. I don't lie unlike
the other answers you will get.
2007-12-25 21:20:24 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
It was a whopping two weeks. Why are you stressing and crying over two weeks? Jeebus. Get over it already and find someone who interests you more. I think you could have waited a few more days but it's done. Just move on.
2007-12-25 20:11:28 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
We don't click with everyone we date, or meet.
This one wasn't meant to be.. Nothing to feel "guilty" about, but he sure is selfish. You ruined his christmas? Well, glad that's overwith!
2007-12-25 20:17:56 · answer #4 · answered by letterstoheather 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
wow, i had the same exact problem! after two weeks i let this guy go bkuz i had no feelings for him too. it hurt him real bad, n it made me sad, but it had to happen and u know wat? he got over it. hes going out with sum chick n im happy for him. dnt blame urself bkuz lyk u said, it was inevitable and he will get over it. try not to beat urself too hard bekuz u deserve to be with sumone u really kare about. hope that helped.
2007-12-25 20:16:15 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋