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Some men feel a bit depressed if their partner refuse to do it. Also they get pissed when partners don't admire their genitals. Why ?

2007-12-25 12:06:27 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Society & Culture Cultures & Groups Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender

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most men like it when their partners swallow because it gives them a feeling of being loved and accepted. it's hardly a power issue, at least, not in general. when their partner refuses to swallow, it can make the man feel rejected, like the partner isn't wholly committed to them.

and the reason a guy feels hurt when his partner doesn't admire his genitals is because it makes him feel, again, like his partner isn't really into him. to the guy, having a partner spit out the semen or not like his genitals is like the partner basically saying "yeah, i'll have sex with you, but you aren't really good enough for me." think about how you would feel if someone you cared for actually did say that to you.

and actually, a lot of guys have tried their own semen. it's a curiosity thing.

2007-12-25 12:39:53 · answer #1 · answered by dracogemini16 2 · 5 0

Well there are several factors in this, first very few people are turned on by spitting (unless we're dealing with humiliation), but generally you spit out bad stuff so it carries that connotation. Admiration for your partner's genitals is part of being attracted to them, think about your partner not liking yours, wouldn't you feel like they weren't really into you?

2007-12-25 20:12:09 · answer #2 · answered by Pirate AM™ 7 · 8 0

The swallow part sounds like a power issue with me, demonstating that one is in enough of a position of power that ones partner, however willingly or not, does something that most folks consider distasteful [pun] or even shameful. In my experience of talking to women about it, the men who are concerned with it are the sort who are hyper aware of dominance and power issues, overly concerned with "who wears the pants" sort of thing.

I don't understand how any male can expect his genitals to be admired. Unless they have tattoos or piercings or something, they all seem to look pretty much alike. Then again, there are very few men who aren't sincerely convinced that they have a magic wand in their pants.

FINAL NOTE: Most of us should be using condoms for EVERYTHING, so this shouldn't be an issue. Acting as "catcher" in unprotected oral sex with males is the #1 way HIV/AIDS is currently spreading in the USA. If any of you ladies are under the impression that giving oral won't get you infected, then think again. Here is some information about condoms and disease prevention. http://www.plannedparenthood.org/birth-control-pregnancy/birth-control/condom.htm

2007-12-25 20:13:52 · answer #3 · answered by kill_yr_television 7 · 6 3

It's a power issue. Men like to brag about that. The way I see it is, if he wants me to swallow, why doesn't he jerk off in a cup, drink it. If he loves the way it tastes, I'll be happy to swallow.I highly doubt any guy has tasted his own juices.

2007-12-25 20:27:43 · answer #4 · answered by Crazy Horse 3 · 6 2

Because it's sexually degrading toward the girl, thus giving the male the feeling that they are overwhelmingly powerful and in control. Men like power and control...

2007-12-25 20:08:58 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 9 4

i guess it kinda lets the guy know that the girl will really do anything, and not just the first part. you know? its like letting you know, yeah she'll do that for me. a sense of control maybe? idk. but yeah it is much more enjoyable to know that the girl swallows.

2007-12-25 20:10:03 · answer #6 · answered by S Tay 2 · 3 2

Because they know how good it tastes

2007-12-25 20:12:12 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 3 5

cause it's weird when you spit it out.

2007-12-25 20:10:17 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 5 2

i dont care

2007-12-25 20:09:15 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 5 5

Gross

2007-12-25 20:20:22 · answer #10 · answered by Meatwad 6 · 0 6

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