2007-12-25 11:21:40 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Arts & Humanities ➔ Philosophy
When you hurt, you are hurt. You do not think.
If you need to curl up into a ball and protect the rest of you that can be hurt, by all means ,do so.
It is not the time for reflection. Grieve, hold your own hands, or cry.
Later, you can try to start thinking again. But instead of questioning yourself and your beliefs, go straight ahead to planning. Plan your next move. There is nothing to be gained otherwise, nothing worth your time.
Just make plans.
2007-12-25 12:34:22 · answer #1 · answered by QuiteNewHere 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I do not think that.
Yes I may be in an "unbearable" situation, and yes I may at times be hurting and feeling that there is no way out.
When these thoughts and feelings come to me, I say F - - K you. For tomorrow is another day.
Okay, So I lost my home and I have no job. I am lifted in spirit, knowing that my child and I are safe tonight. I do not know what tomorrow may bring, but if I give up today, I won't be here to see.
TDL
2007-12-25 11:41:49 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
When you're faced with a painful and unbearable situation, your only choice is to bear it. As you move through your situation, always choose the paths that lead to joy and peace. If you make it through, you'll find joy and and peace on the other side. And you'll also find love.
2007-12-25 11:52:32 · answer #3 · answered by livemoreamply 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Im not in that situation, but have been through unbearable grief of the loss of my child. I didnt think I would make it through, but through the grace of God I did.
2007-12-25 11:36:22 · answer #4 · answered by Grogan 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
when things are beyond your control, beyond your understanding and no one seems to want to help... when all the messages you get from others are negative, yet you feel no different from others... when you find solutions and no one wants to help... when you are alone and no one seems to care... then the situation feels unbearable...
a solution: http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=E7T5UnipKQQ
2007-12-25 12:01:48 · answer #5 · answered by NO Labels 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because my father (who I hate) was abusive, and I have to see him tomorrow. I have NO CHOICE in the matter whatsoever. He hates me too, but at least my suicidal grandmother will be there. Life sucks.
2007-12-25 11:37:06 · answer #6 · answered by Sin 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Lack of perspective
2007-12-25 11:33:44 · answer #7 · answered by thrag 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Need to know why you are asking? Are you hurting, if yes say so.
2007-12-25 15:56:12 · answer #8 · answered by hmmmm 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋