2007-12-25 08:45:49 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Pregnancy
yes, it is normal. Just try to put your mind on something else, and the feeling will go away.
2007-12-25 08:48:23 · answer #1 · answered by i♥sf 5 · 3⤊ 0⤋
I'm 13 weeks pregnant also... between the 8 weeks I've been sick with no end in sight... I finally got a medication for the nausea, and it made me constipated to the point I was more miserable than when I was just throwing up! I've lost 13lbs, but none of my clothes fit... It is so incredibly frustrating.
For a few minutes, I actually felt angry at myself and at my pregnancy. I had a great talk with my boyfriend last night, and it helped a million times. I woke up this morning, in more pain and throwing up worse than ever.. but when I was watching TV, I saw a baby, 2 days old... and it changed everything for me.
Its not your baby's fault. Its your body lol thats what I've convinced myself. And when I hold my little baby in my hands in 27 weeks [I can't believe how fast its going!] it will all be worth it.
I hope the second trimester brings you comfort with yourself and your body.
2007-12-25 16:56:37 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
I'm sure you don't hate the fetus, you just resent the pregnancy overall. I am 39 weeks 5 days, and I am going out of my freaking mind. The symptoms get worse (just warning you). Yotu will likely be very uncomfortable. I ask myself everyday "How can it get any worse???" BUT then it DOES!
I keep reminding myself of how nice next year will be with the baby.
Hang in there...it will be okay. Talk to other women and your husband. It will be a great source of comfort for you!
2007-12-25 16:51:07 · answer #3 · answered by J B 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I'm only 7 weeks and i'm miserable. I got purple stretch marks on my caramel colored breast and ugly red stretch marks on my tummy that itch. My back hurts when I stand up for prolonged periods of time. I can just be sitting down, and i'll get this tingling sensation that starts in my hand and travels up my arm. Then the next thing I know, i've got blue veins showing themselves in my arm (it mainly happens on my right side). I've gained like 20 pound and i'm not even eating because everything makes me sick. I've gone from a coke bottle shape, size nine to an uncomforable size 13. My ob-gyn is as confused as i am. It's too early in the pregnancy for me to look like a blimpe.
I get angry. I wonder some days why do I have to be a host to this creature. Then I look at my nieces or see a baby on a diaper commerical and i can't wait till s/he gets here and I can hold them (omg i hope it's only one lol), and they are completely dependent on me. It makes you feel special i guess.
I know the changes, both hormonal and physical, are un-nerving. They even make you feel a bit unattractive (at least i do). You get tired of being tired. You get tired the morning sickness. You get tired of the ever stretching skin, but there is someone beautiful growning inside you . . . thanking to for being his mommy. S/he is waiting just to see your face. If you can keep that in mind, you'll be fine. The anger and the resentment will fade in time. I wish you the best & congrads on the pregnancy! Merry Christmas!!!!!!
2007-12-25 17:02:28 · answer #4 · answered by datneworleansgurl 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Make the most of them and try to enjoy every second I'd love to feel how you feel but i have blocked tubes so my chances are slim. I'm starting the process of IVF as soon as my husband returns from Iraq. I hope this helps to make u feel better. I'm not saying it at all to be nasty but just to help you realize how lucky you are and it might help you realize that you love your baby and help you to feel excited about becoming a mummy again :o)
2007-12-25 16:54:01 · answer #5 · answered by lol 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
You should count yourself very lucky. There are women out there who would love to be in your shoes right now.....women, who can't conceive for one reason or another. Just think of when your baby comes...how awesome that will be. Maybe the symptoms of pregnancy aren't the greatest in the world, but the outcome is.....and that's what is most important.
2007-12-25 16:58:59 · answer #6 · answered by First Lady 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
To me this is strange. I was upset that I felt sick but never mad at my baby and never called my baby a fetus. Learn to embrace every change as a step towards motherhood.
2007-12-25 16:52:39 · answer #7 · answered by Precious 7 · 1⤊ 1⤋
yeah its completely normal. i feel the same sometimes. it should go away after a while and especially after the baby is born, just try your best to relax and focus on other things.
2007-12-25 16:58:26 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes its hormones so its okay that your kinda mad at the fetus cause its making you feel this way. Its changing your hormones.
2007-12-25 16:48:52 · answer #9 · answered by alexia 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
start looking at babies on the yahoo search babies, think of the smell of a babies sweet little head and the softness, and absolute innocence... find children's stories perhaps online and read them to baby and listen to some soothing music for you both, look at any family pictures you have and introduce them to baby even call baby by it's name, and tell it you love it, and want to be best of friends
2007-12-25 16:53:14 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋