My neigbor admited to someone I know that he engages in homosexuality. How can I keep him from recruiting or influencing my kids. I have 2 sons and a daughter, and I cant stop thinking about all the perverted thoughts he may be having...like he may be a peeper or somethin too
2007-12-25 06:27:46 · 6 answers · asked by Chevy '69 1 in Society & Culture ➔ Other - Society & Culture
Well just because your neighbor is gay does not mean he is a child molestor..i known gay guys..and they did not like kids..i think you are uneducated human being..do not worry iam sure your kids are safe..
2007-12-25 11:09:51 · answer #1 · answered by mindy 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Are you serious? Just because someone is gay doesn't mean they are a pervert or will harm your children. If you are concerned about his past, go to www.meganslaw.com and see if he is listed there. If so, then you can worry. If he is just gay and has not committed any crime, then you need to chill out. Your children are going to encounter gay people their entire lives so you need to be a good parent and talk to them about it. By the way, gay people don't go door-to-door to recruit people. It sounds like you need some education about this so you don't pass on your ignorance to your next generation of offspring.
2007-12-25 14:35:16 · answer #2 · answered by Delete 4 · 2⤊ 1⤋
Just because someone is gay doesn't mean they're pedophiles! The gay guys I know are some of the nicest people I know, SO much nicer than a lot of straight jerks at my school, and they wouldn't do anything like that. You are so prejudiced. Get to know someone before accusing them of pedophilia. Seriously.
2007-12-25 18:02:50 · answer #3 · answered by Suzanna 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
The fact that he prefers male to male sex does not mean he is going to single out your children. Homosexuality is not the same as pedophilia. It just means that whoever he chooses as his mate will be male instead of female. Expecting him to "get" your children has the same logical soundness as expecting a straight male to do something to your daughter just because she is a girl.
If your neighbor confided to your friend that he loves children (that way), then you would have something to worry about.
2007-12-25 14:36:15 · answer #4 · answered by Margaret C 7 · 3⤊ 2⤋
This may surprise you, but not all homosexuals are bad people. They aren't all perverts and they aren't all pedophiles either. Your fears are results of ignorance and stereotyping. Unless you allow yourself to meet your neighbor and learn a little bit about him... what he's like as a person... you'll never know who he truly is. He probably entertains no such thoughts about your children.
2007-12-25 14:33:58 · answer #5 · answered by meadowbee 3 · 2⤊ 3⤋
simple really. you take him a nice little fruit basket and introduce yourself. then while you are making small talk, you tell him that you disagree with his lifestyle completely since he is obviously partaking in the wrong kind of behavior. you then say that what he does with his "friends" in his home is none of your business but you absolutely refuse to allow him to have any dealings with your kids ever. straight-forward confrontation is always the clearest way to get through to people.
2007-12-25 14:39:10 · answer #6 · answered by terry h 3 · 1⤊ 3⤋