has it happened to you?
and did it make you angry, where your clenching your teeth?
to think that when you need people they run off and hide like rabbits.
like when the chips are really down, nobodies there...they seem to desert you.
people are shallow and superficial like frightened rabbits...they have no backbone.....they run off at the first sign of real friction.
whats your opinion on this ?
2007-12-25 06:03:14 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Social Science ➔ Psychology
they run off like frightened piglets
2007-12-25 06:12:26 · update #1
hillman_. ? no sorry didnt follow your logic ?
2007-12-25 06:42:16 · update #2
I was in this situation and got angry so much. after it I decided to change my friends. and this time choose them more carefully.
2007-12-25 08:02:59 · answer #1 · answered by Elham Doost 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Sure, it's happened to me. It used to get me down, made me disappointed and so on, but like someone else already said, I've learnt to not depend so much on other people nowadays. Try to bear in mind though that not everyone you meet out there runs off and hides like a rabbit, as you put it. It's probably hard to imagine, but there really are a few decent people in this world... maybe you just haven't found yours yet. There are definitely good people out there though - you're living proof of the matter. Try to keep your chin up. Talk to someone you think you could trust next time you feel down, perhaps. It might just do you some good. Take care.
2007-12-25 08:24:40 · answer #2 · answered by ? 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
yeah i have been there too it's the reason why there is so much hopelessness in the world cos instances when this happens really prove that only a very very very very very few people do actually care about what happens to you etc. and that's the REAL world. all these caring events like remembrance sunday etc are crap cos only a very very very very very few people do actually care!!
I think the worst aspect of it is when a lot of people laugh/snigger/grin at your hopeless state - kinda like rub salt into the wound. but it takes unhappy bitter people to do this
the philosophy of it all is don't let people get to you and always remember those who laugh/snigger/grin at your misfortunes will be laughed at later on in their own life - tables ALWAYS turn
have a good one
p.s. makes you also realise that when someone calls u a mate are they REALLY a mate??
2007-12-25 06:33:07 · answer #3 · answered by hillman_avenger2006 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
That's why I learned a long time ago that the only one you can really depend on is yourself. If you need something done, don't depend on anyone else to do it for you. These are the mistakes my parents made constantly when I was young and they always got screwed.
2007-12-25 06:12:52 · answer #4 · answered by Resident Heretic 7 · 3⤊ 0⤋
We are in empathy on this matter of the blatant disregard for our fellow human-being .
The irony of it all is that everyone knows how they wanted to be treated but , for some selfish reason , they do not want to extend this courtesy to others .
"The Golden Rule " ; do unto others as you would have others do unto you - The Lord Jesus was and is right !
I regret that you have been made to feel this way ; may God bless you with health , happiness and the desire's of your heart . :0)
2007-12-25 06:20:41 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 1⤋
You've asked that before, why get angry? People don't like trouble, so they avoid you. Did the anger get you what you want, no but you scared other people.
2007-12-25 15:48:39 · answer #6 · answered by Coop 366 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
When I lost my direction in life, I discovered that those closest to me still loved me, but did not have the strength, knowledge, nor understanding to help me.
I eventually learned that people are NOT our source of strength. God (NOT religion!) is, because He created and designed us for Himself. He may help us through people, but ultimately, it takes a relationship with Him to get the real help, direction, guidance, and freedom we need.
If you mean business, take your complaints, frustrations to God Yourself. He sometimes allows situations to happen to us to get us to acknowledge and draw closer to Him. Just ask Him for forgiveness, sincerely make a change in your life, invite His Son Jesus into your heart, and He'll turn things around for you if you let Him. He did it for me, and still helps, personally speaks to me. Gives me wisdom to know what to do, too.
2007-12-25 06:28:29 · answer #7 · answered by JbAchoo 6 · 2⤊ 1⤋
i haven't actually had that but i know a lot of people that have. it is probably because they don't want to be involved, don't like the responsibility to have to always help someone or just don't know how to help. Now i always try my best to be there for people, you are more likely to get people to help if you help them.
2007-12-25 06:18:21 · answer #8 · answered by Shambolic 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I've been there and I know what you mean.I wasn't angry or else, I just was disappointed.
2007-12-25 06:10:18 · answer #9 · answered by Brenno 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋