I had sex for the very first time and I am only 14 years old. I am 3 weeks pregnant and I didn't tell my parents yet or the baby's father. What should I do? I went in with a open heart but not an open mind.
2007-12-25 05:55:49 · 20 answers · asked by Jay W 1 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Adolescent
Hi I am 14 years old too.I think it is best to just tell your parents.The longer you wait the more its going to worry you.
2007-12-25 06:01:10 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Speak to your parents. I know it's going to be hard and you probably will hear something, but you need someone to talk and help you through this. If you want to speak to an independent person first. Do you have a nurse in school you can speak to ? They know all the places you can get help and answers. Don't wait to long. It just will hunt you and make you scarred more and more.
And you might should go to a Doctor to have it confirmend you are very young, irregularity is not uncommon in that age. Does not need to be you are pregnant. Good luck
2007-12-25 14:04:50 · answer #2 · answered by flower 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
well you better sit your parents down soon then hey... you have a choice. to abort, adopt or keep. its something you may want to look at. remember a baby doesnt have to be a bruden, it can be a gift so just see how it goes. if you want it then its your choice, just be prepared for a unhappy boyfriend and family who may leave you or may support you. there are plenty of support groups out there that will help you with an open heart and mind!! good luck missy.
EDIT!! I SEE YOUR LAST QUESTION WAS THE SAME THING? WHATS WRONG WITH YOU THIS PLACE IS FOR PEOPLE THAT REALLY WANT ANSWERS NO MINDLESS BORED TEENS LIKE YOU!!
2007-12-25 14:03:08 · answer #3 · answered by momma-to-morgan 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
u deserve it for being irresponsible and doing this to urself at this very age. I don't pity u, i pity ur child. do u believe that a teen guy would accept a son...i am sure he'll leave u, hope he doesnt. But tell ur parents as soon as possible. Cuz carryin a child at this very age is dangerous and u may develop many problems. Tell ur parents, u need to be informed on how to get nourished and deal wiz ur son...they'll know anyway, u better tell them now. Ur poor baby! 15 mins of pleasure has just destroyed ur life and future!
2007-12-25 14:07:04 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
this is going to be very hard to do, but you need to tell your parents. they will help you figure out your options together. second you need to tell the father, he has every right to know.
I am 17 and putting my baby up for adoption (35 weeks pregnant) if you want to talk more feel free to email me.
EDIT you did post a question 10 months ago about being pregnant... either explain what is going on or take me off your contact list immediately or i will block you
2007-12-25 14:01:58 · answer #5 · answered by *Kala* 3 · 4⤊ 0⤋
All I really know is that you are far too young to take care of a baby. No matter how afraid you are to tell your parents, they will know sooner or later, and sooner is definitely better. The sooner they know the sooner they can help you, and the more options you have. Don't wait on this one. Tell them as soon as you can get them alone.
Blessed Be and may peace be with you
2007-12-25 15:54:19 · answer #6 · answered by Linda B 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Wow....that sux. You did an adult thing, now you have to make adult decisions. Do you want to carry this child to term? Raise it? Give it up for adoption? These are decisions you have to make and quite frankly, you won't be able to do any of them yourself so you're going to need to tell your parents. It's not the end of the world tho. You're not the first child to get pregnant and you certainly will not be the last. This does not have to define a ruined future for you. BUT....you have to grow up! FAST! Like....TODAY!
2007-12-25 14:02:13 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Erm, given that 10 MONTHS ago, you posted a question that you were pregnant then at 13, HOW can you have just had sex for the first time ?
2007-12-25 14:02:30 · answer #8 · answered by stu_the_kilted_scot 7 · 4⤊ 0⤋
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dont listen to those giving you rong. u need to tell the father first, i am a male and have sex with my girlfriend and if she got pregnant id want to be the first to know. and if u abort definately tell the father first, just think its like killing his baby and he wont even no. so tell him then tell your parents WHEN HEZ NOT THERE. dont split up and stay together.
Good Luck :)
2007-12-25 18:02:16 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
You should tell your parents so that they can help you. They will show you all your options and the consequences to these and make an informed decision. You will need to think with your head AND your heart on this one. Good luck!
2007-12-25 14:02:14 · answer #10 · answered by FireyBabe 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋